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two redheads

. What worked for me was No porn and NO Masturbation for at least 3 months. Then relaxing and staying focused on her, her eyes and her body language as well as openly discussing my issues. She immediately knew me inside and after several dates my response was 1000% better to her and Mr Willie…

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two redheads

. What worked for me was No porn and NO Masturbation for at least 3 months. Then relaxing and staying focused on her, her eyes and her body language as well as openly discussing my issues. She immediately knew me inside and after several dates my response was 1000% better to her and Mr Willie…

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woman lying on couch

So last night I had a third date with this really cool girl Parker. Parker is blonde, 5’3, blue green eyes, exactly my type. She’s really a nice girl and I really like her. We’re both looking for work and both graduated some years ago, so we have that in common. We went back to…

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bartender girl

Wow! I remember discovering masturbation as a kid. Ka-blooie! What a shameful and pleasurable thing that was. And then…fast forward to today…let’s get some perspective on masturbation and how it might affect our partner performance. (And I hate using that word “performance” but there isn’t any other way to describe “how Dr. Willie works” so…

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man and woman kissing in bed

Terri and Saul, Terri and Saul, how wonderful are you all. How they met kind of by accident How Terri looked at Saul and saw this total man of her dreams How Saul looked at Terri and instantly knew, “I want her” How they fucked like rabbits How mad they were for each other The…

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asian woman in fishnet stockings

Fuck. A lot of guys think fucking is making love. I am using the word “fuck” here in it’s real meaning. I am so glad we have this wonderful language so we can use it to the max. Forgive me if it seems crude or offensive but there is a reason…trust the Cookster! The fucking…

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smokin hot beach girl

Matt here. I’ve helped 12,000 guys get great satisfaction from sex and the one thing that everyone wants to know going into this is, will this work for me? And the answer is, yes it will. And you have to realize something nobody ever reveals or teaches. If you watch the porn, every guy has…

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girlfriend brunette latina

Gary asked me recently, “Matt, I keep a photo of my girlfriend in my wallet. Sometimes I think about her and fantasize. Sometimes I take out her photo and put it in front of me, like at the gym while I’m doing my spinning exercise. Is this bad? Will this set me back in my…

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What does it look like to recover and reverse your desensitization. I thought I’d show you what this looks like here today. And make some silly puns at the same time. Ready? So, let’s focus first on Stage 1 – realize that desensitization is the cause of the problem This is where most guys are…

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This is my response to “Peter” who I spoke to a few days ago.  Here’s what Peter said to me: “Matt, I just don’t want to go out with this woman. What if she wants to go back to my place? “I can’t take that embarrassment and failure again” What should I do? I want…

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