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Wow, my dick problems are getting better – the three stages of recovery

What does it look like to recover and reverse your desensitization.

I thought I’d show you what this looks like here today. And make some silly puns at the same time.

Ready? So, let’s focus first on

Stage 1 – realize that desensitization is the cause of the problem

This is where most guys are today. They know they are having issues. Their penis isn’t getting as hard as it did before. 

Or they have trouble coming. It’s grind away time with not much feeling and not able to close the deal. 

Or they come too fast and it’s over so quick. How embarrassing to shoot your wad so fast and the dick goes limp and she hasn’t had much time yet to even warm up.

pretty asian girl

Or, perhaps the dick isn’t getting hard at all.

Or it’s only hard for masturbation and not for intercourse.

Or maybe it takes so much work on her part to get the dick hard that it’s like climbing Mount Everest for something that should be fun and easy, right?

No wonder guys have so many problems today and think they are going downhill and need chemicals to pep them up. It’s because

Big pharma has given us a cock and bull story.

(Aahaha, pun intended).

One big drug company accidentally discovered Viagra and how quickly they realized, hey we can make ten bucks every time a guy wants to stick it in his girl. At an average of almost twice a week that’ like seventy bucks a month.

(All the other big drug companies soon came up with similar drugs, what are called in the drug industry “me too” drugs because those other drugs compete with Viagra as in “me too, I keep men hard too, take me instead of Viagra” but these all work the same exact way Viagra works, although some may cause fewer or more side effects or last longer.)

(By the way, guys who make it through my method end up having sex every day, several times a day, or every other day…and for 30 or 60 minutes, not the average of under 3 minutes.)

That Viagra discovery and profit calculation was the beginning of the end for guys who aren’t being told the truth. In working with guys I find that

ED pills make desensitization worse

The pills may not cause desensitization to get worse, but they cause a man to engage in the same type of sex and this perhaps is the reason that with the pills, guys often tend to get worse. The pills work for awhile, but they don’t increase the pleasure or sensation, and ultimately erection problems are worse. And stuff like “I can’t come easily” gets worse…

And, after all, the docs themselves are well meaning. I don’t blame the docs for this. They go through medical school without knowing dick about this problem or its cause (pun intended again) because the drug companies call the shots in terms of research and education.

And drug companies don’t want doctors to know the truth either.

pretty asian girl non porn

So the docs often have the problem themselves. Often. I can’t tell you how many medical guys I’ve spoken to and helped change their life. They are as surprised as anyone to learn about desensitization.

And it’s all because the real cause is being kept from guys. It’s a big conspiracy in my opinion.

So now a guy knows the problem, so the next step is to move to stage 2 and 

Stop porn viewing, fantasy and masturbation (for awhile)

Porn viewing is what causes a lot of dick problems. If you view porn even once a week, or even once a month, and you are not happy with your erections, then you must cut out the porn.

And it isn’t just porn. It’s also just seeing a parade of novel women, surfing personal ads or dating sites. Getting triggers from ads on TV or billboards or emails or Facebook.

It’s challenging stuff. When someone hasn’t recovered and they say, “Matt, I quit porn etc.” I ask them about fantasy and usually this is the culprit.

Fantasy is to the reptile brain the same as something real. But it’s much more intense than something real.

I mean, in the real world I stick my penis in her vagina and we dwell together and it ain’t like the porn scenes.

romantic couple

Plus, I have the same woman that I stick my penis in, not different ones. My brain as a man is very sensitive to seeing a parade of hot fake or unavailable women and it loses sensitivity to my real woman when it sees to many of those fake hotties.

It’s something I never understood before. Because my brain was so desensitized for like the past zillion years that I never noticed it.

Now I notice this effect a lot. I was explaining this to a friend yesterday. I don’t like looking at sexy photos of women because I am so aware of how it affects my perceptions and pleasures with my real woman.

I love looking at a pretty girl, of course. And I do all the time. But I avoid looking at photos, two dimensional images, anything that triggers a sexual thought and that isn’t real.

It just messes up my perceptions and my feelings. And it is doing the same to you but you may not be aware of it yet.

So now fortunately stage 3 happens…

Become much more attractive to women…and begin having a much better time with sex

This is when you get the fact that partner sex and masturbation are so different.

Partner sex becomes really fantastic again. And masturbation has lost its attraction.

Quite frankly, it can get to a point where you don’t masturbate at all.

Not because you are trying not to, but because it is so satisfying having this time with your penis in her vagina and soaking her up that it’s just not even interesting anymore to masturbate.

And the women all over become so much more attracted to you and start giving you signals everywhere.

flirty girl and guy

 

I’m nothing special in the looks department. And even I can’t go out without some woman giving me a signal, perhaps touching my shoulder at the restaurant like happened the other day. Or giving me a frank stare and tossing her hair.

It’s not like I’m anything incredible looking either. It’s just the power of normal male sexual energy.

Because today

Women aren’t used to basking in a man’s built up (normal) sexual energy

They are used to guys who spill their seed at every opportunity and guys who can’t get it up, and guys who are so porn-ified.

Of course there are plenty of virile men but the percentage today is way down.

So you stand out at this point (pun intended, LOL.) You really do. (Note to young guys: get with it, you have an edge in the looks department but older guys who recover are going to be eating your lunch.)

cute girl and guy meeting up

It’s amazing how much confidence you show at this point, even if you are normally somewhat inhibited, shy or reserved.

It doesn’t matter if shy, reserved or even timid is your outward personality.

Inside, your reptile brain is back into balance and it’s a naturally confident brain, and one that just wants to love and make love.

Your reptile brain is now completely confident and it puts out pheromones and confidence signals that women pick up on without your having to do anything, think anything or be anything but who you are. 

It’s at this point that I find 

Men are surprised to discover how confident they become

It’s striking, and this confidence isn’t about just being confident with women.

Here’s a huge secret of attraction and it doesn’t matter if it’s re-attracting your wife to wake her up sexually or landing a gorgeous girlfriend who really digs on you.

The secret is that women are attracted to men who are confident with other men.

That’s right. If you are confident in your dealings with other men, women will be all over you.

And what makes you confident with men and with women is that same male sexual energy.

confident man over woman sexual confidence shows

 

It surges in you and makes you feel like a total winner. And men get out of your way. They defer to you. They respect you even if you don’t say a word. You don’t have to say a word, they get these signals automatically.

This is what makes you more alpha if you want to call it that. And that attracts women and makes you even more alpha, in a virtuous circle.

There is a lot more to all this. But what you may want to do is head over to my From Dead Down There to Raging Sexual Confidence webinar which I’m able to give, thanks to my publisher allowing me to. Click to see what it’s all about.

And please leave a comment, question or concern here. Thank you

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Be honest with her if you aren’t performing

This is my response to “Peter” who I spoke to a few days ago. 

Here’s what Peter said to me:

“Matt, I just don’t want to go out with this woman. What if she wants to go back to my place?

“I can’t take that embarrassment and failure again”

What should I do? I want to meet women but I can’t stand the idea of having things fail again.”

So I want to answer you here, Peter. And first I want to put a very suggestive sexy photo here. Just to get your attention. BUT warning: if you are recovering from porn or whatnot, do NOT look at the photo, just skip over it with your eyes and read on

Okay…let’s start with the photo of a beautiful sexy woman for no particular reason:

sexy girl who will help you overcome erectile dysfunction 

And with this photo, remember this:

She’s also worried about performing with you!

Yes, women also have their worries and anxieties about having sex with YOU.

Sure, she doesn’t have to get it up, but neither do you.

You don’t need to, you know.

You can take it slower. And build up the hormone Oxytocin in your brain and hers. Oxytocin makes great erections and lowers the time from one ejaculation to the next. 

Oxytocin makes you dig the other person, but not in a needy hungry way. So if you and she aren’t right for each other, it will be a mutual friendly decision and you can still maintain a friendship. Maybe even FWB if you both want that.

No drama.

You can give Oxytocin a chance to build up in your brain. How? By doing some sleeping together without trying to stick it in. Just for example. And no oral or handjobs for now, either!

girl and guy cuddling in bed

But Matt, she’ll toss me aside if I say I want to take it slow…

She’s horny and she’ll think there’s something wrong with me if I tell her I want to take it slow…

Yeah?

Well, so what.

If she wants to have sex immediately and she doesn’t want to get to know you a bit first, then perhaps at this moment in your life she isn’t a good match for you. At this stage, it should be about building up Oxytocin.

Because Oxytocin can bring back softer erections and make them hard. Plus, Oxytocin removes performance anxiety and pressure.

So you don’t need to perform when your Oxytocin levels are high. It’s all automatic and stress free.

But back to what I was saying about your lady. She is worried too.

Women sometimes worry they won’t get wet. Or they worry they won’t come. Not all women worry about this all the time, but many women worry about this more often than you’d think.

(If we could just all get off like animals, we wouldn’t have all this brain stuff here and there, and it would be much easier? It’s the curse of Man and Woman, that we have brains to think with when it comes time to have sex.)

But what…

If you are following my recovery method, what do you tell her in the meantime?

You can as I see it, either conceal or reveal. But let me tell you a secret.

Women admire a man who has confidence.

And the confidence can be, “I’m giving my willie a rest. We can cuddle tonight, I’d love to do that, but sex is off the table for me during this time.”

Hey, how about that?

A breath of fresh air, no?

girls should have patience with men experiencing  a bit of erectile dysfunction

But Matt, won’t she think I’m some sort of wuss if I tell her that?

Good women know men’s equipment isn’t always functioning tippy top. Good women know men bear the incredible burden God gave men of not having say over whether their willie gets hard, or doesn’t. Women know men have that burden.

And great women know that

You have to be brave to be a real man with a penis

I’ve had my woman tell me that routinely. “Matt,” she’ll say. “I don’t know how you men do it. I’d hate to have to perform all the time. At least I can fake it now and then.”

LOL.

So ask yourself, do you want to go to bed with a girl who doesn’t care about you, and who just demands satisfaction?

I’d throw her over the side in a heartbeat if she isn’t on board with what my willie is or isn’t doing at the moment…

Next!

Who has time or patience for that bullshit? A confident guy just moves to the next girl. Her loss.

Because there will be plenty of nice fun sexy times, plenty. You’ll see yourself through this even if it’s gone on for years, even decades.

But for gosh sakes, get your partner on your side. My system of recovery is so much easier if you have a girl to go to bed with, someone you care for who cares about you.

Yes try to be honest and discover how much better life is.

You’ll find that your life works a whole lot better when you’re not trying to erect a fake front (pun intended) and you just are honest.

beautiful woman

It actually shows a SUPER confident man who can man up to a girl about a temporary dick problem. Even a temporary dick problem that has gone on for a long time. Hey, at least you’re getting the problem fixed.

A real man fixes a problem and a great woman loves a man like that. She’ll dig on you and be even hornier for you when the time comes.

Try it this way.

And if you haven’t already, I’m extending this webinar for one more time, go here and make sure you have registered. Click here for more.

Feel free to leave YOUR experiences with women — telling them or not telling them. What happened? What did you do? What was the result? Please share below. Thank you

warmly

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Be honest with her if you aren’t performing

This is my response to “Peter” who I spoke to a few days ago. 

Here’s what Peter said to me:

“Matt, I just don’t want to go out with this woman. What if she wants to go back to my place?

“I can’t take that embarrassment and failure again”

What should I do? I want to meet women but I can’t stand the idea of having things fail again.”

So I want to answer you here, Peter. And first I want to put a very suggestive sexy photo here. Just to get your attention. BUT warning: if you are recovering from porn or whatnot, do NOT look at the photo, just skip over it with your eyes and read on

Okay…let’s start with the photo of a beautiful sexy woman for no particular reason:

sexy girl who will help you overcome erectile dysfunction 

And with this photo, remember this:

She’s also worried about performing with you!

Yes, women also have their worries and anxieties about having sex with YOU.

Sure, she doesn’t have to get it up, but neither do you.

You don’t need to, you know.

You can take it slower. And build up the hormone Oxytocin in your brain and hers. Oxytocin makes great erections and lowers the time from one ejaculation to the next. 

Oxytocin makes you dig the other person, but not in a needy hungry way. So if you and she aren’t right for each other, it will be a mutual friendly decision and you can still maintain a friendship. Maybe even FWB if you both want that.

No drama.

You can give Oxytocin a chance to build up in your brain. How? By doing some sleeping together without trying to stick it in. Just for example. And no oral or handjobs for now, either!

girl and guy cuddling in bed

But Matt, she’ll toss me aside if I say I want to take it slow…

She’s horny and she’ll think there’s something wrong with me if I tell her I want to take it slow…

Yeah?

Well, so what.

If she wants to have sex immediately and she doesn’t want to get to know you a bit first, then perhaps at this moment in your life she isn’t a good match for you. At this stage, it should be about building up Oxytocin.

Because Oxytocin can bring back softer erections and make them hard. Plus, Oxytocin removes performance anxiety and pressure.

So you don’t need to perform when your Oxytocin levels are high. It’s all automatic and stress free.

But back to what I was saying about your lady. She is worried too.

Women sometimes worry they won’t get wet. Or they worry they won’t come. Not all women worry about this all the time, but many women worry about this more often than you’d think.

(If we could just all get off like animals, we wouldn’t have all this brain stuff here and there, and it would be much easier? It’s the curse of Man and Woman, that we have brains to think with when it comes time to have sex.)

But what…

If you are following my recovery method, what do you tell her in the meantime?

You can as I see it, either conceal or reveal. But let me tell you a secret.

Women admire a man who has confidence.

And the confidence can be, “I’m giving my willie a rest. We can cuddle tonight, I’d love to do that, but sex is off the table for me during this time.”

Hey, how about that?

A breath of fresh air, no?

girls should have patience with men experiencing  a bit of erectile dysfunction

But Matt, won’t she think I’m some sort of wuss if I tell her that?

Good women know men’s equipment isn’t always functioning tippy top. Good women know men bear the incredible burden God gave men of not having say over whether their willie gets hard, or doesn’t. Women know men have that burden.

And great women know that

You have to be brave to be a real man with a penis

I’ve had my woman tell me that routinely. “Matt,” she’ll say. “I don’t know how you men do it. I’d hate to have to perform all the time. At least I can fake it now and then.”

LOL.

So ask yourself, do you want to go to bed with a girl who doesn’t care about you, and who just demands satisfaction?

I’d throw her over the side in a heartbeat if she isn’t on board with what my willie is or isn’t doing at the moment…

Next!

Who has time or patience for that bullshit? A confident guy just moves to the next girl. Her loss.

Because there will be plenty of nice fun sexy times, plenty. You’ll see yourself through this even if it’s gone on for years, even decades.

But for gosh sakes, get your partner on your side. My system of recovery is so much easier if you have a girl to go to bed with, someone you care for who cares about you.

Yes try to be honest and discover how much better life is.

You’ll find that your life works a whole lot better when you’re not trying to erect a fake front (pun intended) and you just are honest.

beautiful woman

It actually shows a SUPER confident man who can man up to a girl about a temporary dick problem. Even a temporary dick problem that has gone on for a long time. Hey, at least you’re getting the problem fixed.

A real man fixes a problem and a great woman loves a man like that. She’ll dig on you and be even hornier for you when the time comes.

Try it this way.

And if you haven’t already, I’m extending this webinar for one more time, go here and make sure you have registered. Click here for more.

Feel free to leave YOUR experiences with women — telling them or not telling them. What happened? What did you do? What was the result? Please share below. Thank you

warmly

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Fix erectile dysfunction: Does Porn Cause ED?

This article shows you how porn is most likely causing your problems getting hard and staying hard. Read it even if you doubt this is your problem. It can be a life changer even if you are skeptical.

So, every day, I get a ton of emails about my work. And it’s what makes this work so much fun and so rewarding.

We are helping so many guys get their sex life back.

And since sex is more important than almost anything else in life, we’re doing a lot of good with guys and couples and making the world a lot better a place. Before I continue let me introduce a picture that is kind of fun…just to keep things lively. If you are recovering from porn use, don’t look.

porn and erectile dysfunction - don't look at this pretty girl ready for sex if you are recovering from porn induced ED

If you want to email me simply write to me at matt at getrapidhelp.com, substituting @ for the at (I don’t write it out so I don’t get as much spam from robots that harvest email addresses, so you know what to do since you are a real human not a robot…) So now on to how stopping porn use can fix your erection problems…

“Matt how can I avoid going soft during sex?”

Many of these emails I get every day are like this one. “Jim” is having problems staying hard. He pleasures his girlfriend with her vibrator but of course wants real sex. And how long will she want to have a man who can’t get hard and really give it to her good?

So I asked “Jim” if he uses porn and he answered with this (I always protect the confidentiality and privacy of every guy. We never share info that is personally attached about any guy no matter what. Even wild horses and hot coals won’t get us to release personal info about you, ever ever ever.)

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porn, yes sometimes but take it with a grain of salt

only look at it to try and get ready for my girl whom i love dearly

and her me/ but a bit embarssaring when it wont stay hard

i get her off with a vibe but you know what im missing

.

So by now, you need to know this simple equation:

So now you need to know this simple equation: porn = ED

Porn causes erectile dysfunction.

Not for every guy and not immediately.

But porn use causes problems. It does this by causing desensitization.

Desensitization progresses like this:

The six stages of erectile dysfunction

Stage #1: Feel a little less when you masturbate or have partner sex. Just less feeling altogether, less pleasurable orgasms.

Stage #2: Feel less love and affection for your girl. See her more critically. See her zits. A bit of her belly fat. See her behavior and feel critical inside. Not a loving feeling.

Stage #3: Morning wood stops. The progression is, you wake up more and more often without an erection. Eventually never have an erection when you wake up.

Stage #4: Occasionally difficult to have an erection with partner sex. Sometimes you go soft when you’re inside. Masturbation still works okay.

porn is poison for the male brain because porn causes erectile dysfunction

Stage #5: No erections maintained. And even masturbation becomes difficult.

Stage #6: No erections maintained. And masturbation with a soft noodle only.

The cause of most of this for most guys most of the time is desensitization

There are many causes of desensitization. And these causes include poor masturbation habits and medical issues.

But of all of them, if you view porn even sometimes,

The porn is what is causing your erectile dysfunction

And here’s an important point.

It doesn’t matter if you just WATCH porn. You don’t need to masturbate to porn in order for it to cause ED.

And you don’t need to have an orgasm watching porn for porn to cause ED.

Even watching it causes ED by increasing desensitization.

Courtesy Of www.flickr.com/photos/wiseacre/312839512/

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Watching porn, whether you masturbate to orgasm, masturbate just a little, or “edge”, causes ED.

And even if you watch without any masturbation whatever, you still will cause ED using porn this way.

Why does porn cause so much desensitization even without masturbation?

It has to do with how the brain works. The male brain specifically.

And not just the male brain, but the part of the brain that is almost reptilian. Very basic to us and all the animals.

Our male brains get a reward from stuff related to reproduction. That’s how we’re designed. It’s part of our basic hardware.

Here are the designs built into our brain that porn affects.

Here is exactly why porn causes ED

Design #1 in our brains is about novelty. New females reward our reptilian brains. We love new women, new positions, new female bodies. We are designed to get bored with the same old same old.

Porn shows us all these women who are NEW to us. That affects our brain’s desire for NEW females. And makes the “old” females much less interesting. We become less sensitive to our woman from this.

This is why porn hurts us even if we just watch it, without masturbating to it. Porn affects our reptilian brains by exposing our brains to all these novel women. That desensitizes our brains.

Design #2 in our brains is about porn star expectations. Our brains are designed to desire and crave women who are very young, and very sexy, and who will do things that we desire.

These expectations collide with the real world. We can’t help it, we look at our woman and compare her to what we see the porn stars do. And we feel bad about our woman, our situation and “normal” real world sex.

disappointed woman in bed with man in towel

Design #3 is about escalation. Our brains are designed to get off with sex. Normal real world sex gets us off in a certain way. Porn gets us off in a different way. And frequently, this leads to the same old porn not working so well anymore.

Warning: today’s porn is like today’s junk food — it affects the brain like sugar affects belly fat

Today’s porn is very much like concentrated sugary candy compared to a piece of natural fruit. Technology creates sugary candies and cakes and this triggers cravings for sugar and causes us to eat poorly.

With today’s porn, we see high speed videos of women and men doing different things and it’s like sugary junk food to our brain. We begin not getting off on it anymore and then we seek out more extreme forms of porn.

This is

Why gay sex porn is so popular today with straight guys

Gay sex porn is popular with straight men because they have found that normal straight porn no longer works. Their brains are used to the straight porn and no longer respond the same way.

So a man escalates to other more extreme porn such as gay sex porn. 

By the way, gay men who are into porn — guess what? They escalate to straight porn for the same reasons. Straight porn is “extreme” for gay men. But remember

Porn hurts men even if it doesn’t lead to escalation

Not every porn user will escalate to gay porn. Some escalate to bondage porn. Some to group sex porn. Or teenage porn. 

And some don’t escalate at all.

Escalation is common but not universal. But even for men who don’t escalate to more extreme forms of porn, the porn they do watch causes desensitization all the same.

So those are the three “design issues” in our brains that cause porn to harm us and interfere with our having a great sex life.

If a guy writes to me, I ask if he uses porn and many guys with ED problems will say “yes but”. 

Yes but I only use it once a week. Yes but I don’t masturbate to it. Yes but I use it only occasionally.

If you use porn, you should stop.

And here’s a way to recover your sensitivity and become the sexual man you were at 20 years old

 I’m doing a workshop that will help you recover your function and become a total man with raging sexual confidence and super sensitivity. There are a few spots left as of this writing so go here to find out more.

Please feel free to comment or ask a question.

Warmly,

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Bonus: How To Get Your Erections Back

This bonus will help you fix erectile dysfunction more quickly than ever before.

And because I like to look at pretty girls here is an entirely unnecessary picture of pretty girls. Why stop at just one?

(But beware: in the next few days you’ll find why looking too closely at pictures like these may hurt your performance and slow down your recovery…)

very pretty girls - with these girls you don't want to experience erectile dysfunction do you?

Alright, now on with the article.

There are four different methods that can fix the problem.

1. Drugs

2. Supplements

3. Mechanical devices

4. Exercises, activities, meditations, etc., which I’ll call “solo activities”, which is what our courses are all about.

Let’s talk drugs and medical stuff here in this article.

viagra pills for erectile dysfunction

Do they work?

How do they work?

Will they stop working?

By now we’re all familiar with Viagra, Cialis, Levitra and so forth.

 

But do you know how they work?

It’s important so pay close attention…

When you get an erection, it’s caused by blood filling up spongy tissue in the penis. 

penis structure diagram

A little known fact: men and women have erectile tissue in their nose. Women have it in their clit and also in the area under their labia, which accounts for that turned-on puffed-out look when she really wants it.

But I digress.

So an erection is caused by blood in the penis. The blood is trapped by valves.

What if the valves that support erection don’t work?

It is possible for the valves supporting erection not to work. 

However, the body is excellent at healing this type of damage.

The body continually replenishes almost all cells. The cells grow old and die, and the body replaces them.

This constant renewal and replenishment process happens in almost all cells. Including the valves supporting erection in the penis.

However, if you are taking pills for certain vascular problems, the pills may interfere with the valves. It is also possible that various diseases may interfere with these valves working.

However, in 99% of the cases when a man can’t get an erection, the valves can work. It’s a problem caused by another cause altogether. Not broken valves.

And the magic of good hardons — it’s all triggered by a gas called nitric oxide. 

I you were to inhale nitric oxide gas straight you’d be in the hospital. It’s bad stuff!

The nitric oxide in your penis has to be in tiny quantities in the cells.

Keep in mind an important fact: nitric oxide is responsible for the heart beating.

Okay, so back to drugs.

Here’s how ED pills do their magic

The ED drugs slow down a natural process. The natural process of the nitric oxide draining away, which opens the valve and empties the penis.

This process of nitric oxide is used in all the arteries in the body. Especially important in the heart. 

More on that in a moment.

The ED drugs tie up a certain chemical enzyme that triggers this reversal of nitric oxide. The enzyme is temporarily tied up, or tied up for a long time or a short time, depending on which drug is involved.

Longer lasting drugs tie up the enzyme for a longer period of time.

Note what the drugs do not do.

The drugs do not make you feel more sensation. So if you aren’t feeling much now, you won’t feel much even if you have a stiffie.

And the drugs don’t improve your performance. They don’t stop you from ejaculating too fast. They don’t make you come when you can’t come easily. You still won’t be able to come easily, but you’ll have an erection for a lot longer.

Also, remember we said that the nitric oxide chemical also causes the heart to beat normally?

A lot of drugs that people take for heart problems also hit that nitric oxide pathway. 

The same pathway that the ED medication affects.

Which is why drugs for erectile dysfunction can be dangerous for men taking these other heart drugs.

And, it’s why a lot of men suffer side effects such as headaches and weird palpitations when they take the ED drugs.

Read what the Harvard Medical School says about ED pills for men with heart issues:

harvard ED pills for men with heart problems

Anyway, these drugs are sort of safe for guys with heart problems in some cases, and quite dangerous in others.

And they have a load of side effects for most men.

But what of men who take these pills and find they don’t work?

About 40% of men who can’t get an erection, the drugs do nothing good. They only work when you already have an erection.

Yet, despite everything, the drugs are a good thing. They shouldn’t be depended on. And you can do a lot by taking the smallest amount required…as the Harvard article points out.

But…what about this…how typical is

Joe’s experience with Cialis

Joe was using Cialis for several years and things were okay. But then he found that his erections were softer and didn’t last as long. Finally the Cialis stopped working altogether.

Joe’s problem with the ED meds is very universal. The meds may continue to work, or they may not. The reason they may stop working is that the primary causes of ED aren’t being addressed. 

The primary cause of ED is desensitization, and the drugs don’t reverse desensitization. They may cover it up for awhile. But the desensitization left untreated only goes in one direction: worse.

but what if you can't fix ED with pills or what if the pills stop working?

That’s because lots of things make desensitization get worse. Bad masturbation habits, porn usage, fantasy, certain types of sex, many medications, some health issues…all make desensitization worse.

So while Joe was using Cialis, his desensitization continued getting worse. The Cialis just covered it up for awhile.

And now let’s 

Get moving to a few days that will change your life

You want hard erections, long lasting ones, and you want a great relationship with your wife or girlfriend…so why not commit to really working at this for the next X days.

What you already purchased will get you there. My intention is to help make it all work faster, better and more effectively. So watch your email over the next 10 days.

Why 10 days?

10 days is a good number to work for the time being. It isn’t an eternity and it isn’t like 1 day either.

And 10 days is long enough to at least start to see results. And nothing like results to keep it going, is there?

Will you join me in committing to the next 10 days, what I’ll call the 10 Day Challenge? Let me know, tell me what you think about a 10 day challenge below. Feel free to tell us a little about your situation.

And write any questions or comments you have. .

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My method of fixing ED through simple solo activities is proven with over 12,000 guys.

These men want to make passionate love for 30 or 60 minutes at a time. Experience amazing feeling and pleasure. And give their women multiple orgasms. Use this information wisely — you won’t find it anywhere in the medja or from the so-called sexperts. 

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