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Raising testosterone naturally

Quick summary: This is for guys who want higher testosterone rates and here are two proven ways to perhaps double your T without gels, pills, supplements or injections.

Sure some guys need extra testosterone and they have to get it from gels or injections

But they are few and far between. The medical establishment and Big Pharma has figured out how to exploit men by charging vast amounts for bioidentical testosterone supplement gels or injections.

But most men don’t need this. (I’m huge on supplements, not saying they’re bad, referring here to giving someone extra bioidentical testosterone…which often has a lot of side effects…)

One who does need extra testosterone, say, is a man who had traumatic surgery and chemotherapy for cancer. His T levels fell from normal to near zero.

But most men reading this do not need to take supplements and the supplements can cause a lot of harm.

They raise your estrogen levels.

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They can increase the chances of heart attack.

They can mess with your red blood count and cause a host of other problems.

They should be an ultra last resort.

What if there was a way to raise your T levels without this?

Here’s a real testimony I found:

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“My Doctor Freaked Out…”

My total testosterone went from ~550 to 911 according to my last lab tests.

This is on a scale of 300 – 900.

So I currently have the test levels of a 21 YO, and Im 41 YO.

That was not always the case.

I used to be more in line with a 70 YO. My Dr freaked out on my test levels because Im off the scale. 

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We’ll call this guy “Bill” as he is anonymous (all the guys I work with or talk about remain anonymous and privacy is always protected.)

Bill had really bad ED, and low T levels, and was really sick for a long time.

Bill says he got erectile problems about 8 years ago. Then he started ED medication and that worked for awhile, but eventually quit working.

We would say Bill was on the classic path to desensitization. The problem probably began with erections that weren’t quite as hard, and then it progressed to going soft, and then eventually being soft all the time.

Bill was going to the doctor for years over low testosterone levels and general poor health. And he wasn’t even 40 when this really started.

What he did to fix the problem?

God might have helped Bill.

I’m sure God (or whatever your concept of the Higher Being is) can help anyone. The idea of a higher power in charge of everything, and especially a loving and caring higher power, seems to help everyone.

Bill is a Christian and he says he grew much more in touch with his higher power and thinks this could really have helped his recovery. And…

Bill made important changes to his diet

Diet can have a profound effect on T levels.

One of the sources of illness and low T is internal inflammation. Diet can conquer that to a great degree, and when that gets better, everything gets better.

Perhaps this is why Bill’s T levels shot up. This is a huge one and it gets to the cause of low T.

The cause of low T — normally doctors never even ask. They don’t care why T is low. But if T is low, isn’t something causing it? Doctors are focused on treating symptoms, not causes. And we all suffer from that focus.

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My findings are that low T is often caused by internal inflammation. And often environmental factors that cause estrogen levels to be too high in a man. 

And there is a third factor that Bill found is important, and he thinks this is THE thing that did it for him:

How sex can raise your T levels

Some scientists took a group of guys who didn’t get erections. These guys had Problems.

The scientists helped the guys recover their erections — through pills, pumps, whatever. Just enough to start having partner sex again.

And guess what happened to the T levels for these guys? Higher and higher. In fact, more sex = higher T levels. And it didn’t matter how they had sex — except only partner sex did it, not masturbation.

Yes the more partner sex you have, the more your T levels rise

Because masturbation hasn’t been shown to raise T levels.

In fact, Bill thinks that stopping masturbation helped his T levels improve drastically.

I tend to agree. I have developed a method to help men recover totally from ED. It works for thousands of men. And this method will also most probably raise your testosterone levels through the roof. All on its own.

Click here for an advanced webinar that shows you how to fix desensitization and go from “dead down there” to raging confidence.

And please make sure to leave a comment or question if I can be of any help.

 

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Alright, now on with the article.

There are four different methods that can fix the problem.

1. Drugs

2. Supplements

3. Mechanical devices

4. Exercises, activities, meditations, etc., which I’ll call “solo activities”, which is what our courses are all about.

Let’s talk drugs and medical stuff here in this article.

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Do they work?

How do they work?

Will they stop working?

By now we’re all familiar with Viagra, Cialis, Levitra and so forth.

 

But do you know how they work?

It’s important so pay close attention…

When you get an erection, it’s caused by blood filling up spongy tissue in the penis. 

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A little known fact: men and women have erectile tissue in their nose. Women have it in their clit and also in the area under their labia, which accounts for that turned-on puffed-out look when she really wants it.

But I digress.

So an erection is caused by blood in the penis. The blood is trapped by valves.

What if the valves that support erection don’t work?

It is possible for the valves supporting erection not to work. 

However, the body is excellent at healing this type of damage.

The body continually replenishes almost all cells. The cells grow old and die, and the body replaces them.

This constant renewal and replenishment process happens in almost all cells. Including the valves supporting erection in the penis.

However, if you are taking pills for certain vascular problems, the pills may interfere with the valves. It is also possible that various diseases may interfere with these valves working.

However, in 99% of the cases when a man can’t get an erection, the valves can work. It’s a problem caused by another cause altogether. Not broken valves.

And the magic of good hardons — it’s all triggered by a gas called nitric oxide. 

I you were to inhale nitric oxide gas straight you’d be in the hospital. It’s bad stuff!

The nitric oxide in your penis has to be in tiny quantities in the cells.

Keep in mind an important fact: nitric oxide is responsible for the heart beating.

Okay, so back to drugs.

Here’s how ED pills do their magic

The ED drugs slow down a natural process. The natural process of the nitric oxide draining away, which opens the valve and empties the penis.

This process of nitric oxide is used in all the arteries in the body. Especially important in the heart. 

More on that in a moment.

The ED drugs tie up a certain chemical enzyme that triggers this reversal of nitric oxide. The enzyme is temporarily tied up, or tied up for a long time or a short time, depending on which drug is involved.

Longer lasting drugs tie up the enzyme for a longer period of time.

Note what the drugs do not do.

The drugs do not make you feel more sensation. So if you aren’t feeling much now, you won’t feel much even if you have a stiffie.

And the drugs don’t improve your performance. They don’t stop you from ejaculating too fast. They don’t make you come when you can’t come easily. You still won’t be able to come easily, but you’ll have an erection for a lot longer.

Also, remember we said that the nitric oxide chemical also causes the heart to beat normally?

A lot of drugs that people take for heart problems also hit that nitric oxide pathway. 

The same pathway that the ED medication affects.

Which is why drugs for erectile dysfunction can be dangerous for men taking these other heart drugs.

And, it’s why a lot of men suffer side effects such as headaches and weird palpitations when they take the ED drugs.

Read what the Harvard Medical School says about ED pills for men with heart issues:

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Anyway, these drugs are sort of safe for guys with heart problems in some cases, and quite dangerous in others.

And they have a load of side effects for most men.

But what of men who take these pills and find they don’t work?

About 40% of men who can’t get an erection, the drugs do nothing good. They only work when you already have an erection.

Yet, despite everything, the drugs are a good thing. They shouldn’t be depended on. And you can do a lot by taking the smallest amount required…as the Harvard article points out.

But…what about this…how typical is

Joe’s experience with Cialis

Joe was using Cialis for several years and things were okay. But then he found that his erections were softer and didn’t last as long. Finally the Cialis stopped working altogether.

Joe’s problem with the ED meds is very universal. The meds may continue to work, or they may not. The reason they may stop working is that the primary causes of ED aren’t being addressed. 

The primary cause of ED is desensitization, and the drugs don’t reverse desensitization. They may cover it up for awhile. But the desensitization left untreated only goes in one direction: worse.

but what if you can't fix ED with pills or what if the pills stop working?

That’s because lots of things make desensitization get worse. Bad masturbation habits, porn usage, fantasy, certain types of sex, many medications, some health issues…all make desensitization worse.

So while Joe was using Cialis, his desensitization continued getting worse. The Cialis just covered it up for awhile.

And now let’s 

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I started my dangerous experiment and it changed everything.

Hey, your body is your laboratory. This test will shock the living shit of you, I promise!

Men always ask me, Matt, how do I have sex for 30 minutes or longer? And how do I do that in a way that wakes up the girl, gets us both off a lot, for a long time?

Lots of these guys will go on to say, “my dick’s not as hard anymore, I don’t have morning wood as often, what’s up with that? And the sensation isn’t there…”

Well, my answer is to start with ejaculation.

Yes, the truth is this.

As us guys ejaculate, the more often we do it, the more power we lose UNLESS we ejaculate having sex “a certain way.”

That certain way is having sex a long time, with exquisite pleasure, for 10 minutes, 30 minutes, or an hour. You come when you are ready, and when she’s had 2, 3 or 10 orgasms.

Why does this work? Because

Long pleasurable sex builds up Oxytocin in your brain and body…

Oxytocin makes harder erections, makes you last longer, increases sensation. It even helps you lose weight and it lowers your stress levels. It is magic for reversing depression and anxiety issues.

I want you to take this test now to see how ejaculation affects you. It’s a short, easy test.

Day 1 – ejaculate 3 times. If you can. If you can’t, try once or twice. The more the merrier. Solo or with a partner.

Day 2 – ejaculate 3 times or as often as you can. Again, solo or with a partner.

Day 3 – how do you feel? How are your energy levels? How do you perceive women? 

Day 3, 4 and 5, I want you to NOT ejaculate. At all. If you are “edging”, or masturbating in any way to porn with or without orgasm, don’t do it on Day 3, 4 and 5.

Now, on Day 5 – how do you feel? How are your energy levels? How do you perceive women?

This is so eye opening it will change your life.

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* How can you get your wife or GF out of her rut so she gets totally turned on now and forever (this works even if you and she are bored or you don’t find her attractive anymore.)

* How can you get your equipment working again? Step by step, with completely new methods I’ve discovered…

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erections come and go – why? And why no desire for my wife?

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I’m a 54 yo man. I’ve been dealing with this for the last 20 yrs.

I believe a lot of my problem began due to lack of feeling desired from my wife which left me feeling what is wrong with me.

I’m currently divorced 2 half yrs now.

Last 10 yrs I went through. Clinical depression taking 2 anti-depressants which killed my drive & erections after divorcing I came off my anti-depressants. T

hat helped some. But still deal with ED. My Dr says I have profermance anxiety.

I get night erections multiple times a night for a few weeks then it’s like they leave me for a few weeks.

When I go to have sex with someone; most of the time I get erected then lose it & sometimes I don’t ever get up.

It’s frustrating.

I’ve learned Levitra works best for my with the BP meds & cholerterole meds I take but still not a guantaree either.

I do have low testerstone had gotten down to 222 and currently taking Andor-Gel 1.62% and been on it a yr now which brought my T levels back up to 755.

Suppose to use 3 pumps daily.

But have backed down to 1 pump daily. I’ve been on this a yr now & starting to notice my testicles starting to shrink.

With the Andro-gel not boosting my sex drive nor helping with erections I’m wondering why take this. I can’t tell it’s helped me any is why I have backed off this own my own.

When I’m having regular night time erections the sensentitivity in my penis is better.

Still not great.

But when I’m not noticing or waking with night erections the sensivity is less. It’s rare when I really feet Horney. I’d love to feel this on a regular basis again. Can u help me? I sure hope so.

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Rick, here’s what I see when I read your note.

I see a guy who has some underlying metabolic problem that leads to all sorts of health issues.

The doctors treat just the symptoms. Their approach:

Your testosterone is low, so  take testosterone hormones. You aren’t getting good erections, so take Levitra.

I’m in my 50s also and I’m fortunate that I found out how this works. I’m taking nothing and haven’t for years. It’s because I’ve figured out what the causes of these problems are.

If you fix the cause, you an eliminate the need to take anything. And it’s far better because you are healthier, live happier and avoid medication and side effects.

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So what is the underlying medical issue? I am hopelessly unqualified to determine that. But it is safe to say that your body is out of balance and I will let you in on one secret right here that can change everything.

Speaking of which, I don’t buy the doctor’s explanation about performance anxiety either. All the total symptoms you talk about:

Lack of desire for your wife (if I understood that correctly)

Poor erections and inconsistent erections

Blood pressure issues

Low testosterone

These can all be fixed when you change your lifestyle just a bit. 

I address all this in my T Liftoff Formula home study course, so I won’t get into it here. That course shows you in a series of videos how to raise your testosterone, end the need for blood pressure meds and cholesterol meds, and get a lot more sensitivity in your penis. Better erections. More desire.

I want to talk specifically in the remaining part here about the angle of inconsistent erections.

You should wake up with an erection every morning. If you don’t something may be wrong

Yes, every day, a man should wake up with a strong morning erection. Morning wood as us guys often call it.

(I wonder if the Beatles had this in mind with Norwegian Wood, LOL…)

Morning wood is a very good diagnostic tool. If you aren’t having it, it tells you that your hormones are a bit out of whack. You might miss a day here or there, but overall it is quite important to consistently have morning erections.

Now let’s talk a key point on hormone levels.

Hormone levels are very complicated and not what people and doctors think.

The hormone that can fix almost everything — and no it’s not testosterone

Of all the important hormones perhaps none is more important to desire and performance as Oxytocin.

Oxytocin, the hormone of that strong loving feeling you have for someone.

Oxytocin love brings the deepest level of joy and desire for someone.

Oxytocin builds strong erections.

It shortens the time between when you can come and then get another erection and come again.

It increases your sensitivity off the charts.

Then a companion hormone is quite important to. I’m talking…

…dopamine, the hormone of want and needing someone or something. Dopamine = want.

Dopamine driven behaviors cause us to smoke, drink, gamble, eat, have sex, ask a woman out, buy a new iPhone. Dopamine is a fine hormone because it’s fun to want someone physically right now.

But dopamine also creates the “pleasure pain” meaning with the pleasure of wanting, comes the pain afterwards. It’s done. Over. Never as good as I thought it would be.

Don’t build your life around dopamine…

So dopamine is not a dependable hormone to build your life around. It’s something to watch.

The more of something you want, and the more you physically feel that wanting…well that’s dopamine.

You may notice when you lust after someone or something…how you are breathing faster, your heart speeds up, and how you are hyped up…that’s true if you lust after a girl or a new iPhone. It’s exactly the same.

It’s all dopamine.

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And to a smaller degree dopamine drives you to check your email or Facebook account all during the day, or your text messages. Something new might be there. Something new is there! It’s a little spurt of dopamine in the brain.

Dopamine behaviors are addictive. They’re all about addiction.

But we need dopamine. I like being addicted to food, drink and sex, or I’d die. Dopamine is cool but you don’t want it in the driver’s seat. You don’t want dopamine running your life.

There are a bunch more hormones but here is what I want to really say here. Consistent erections and morning wood every morning…zero problems getting and staying hard…being able to last a long time…feeling great desire for your girlfriend or wife…this is made possible by one thing.

Increase the oxytocin in your brain, and you will usually have consistent desire, erections and performance

At this point, you’re saying, “hey can I get Oxytocin and take it like a pill?”

Nope, unfortunately. It’s available as a nasal spray but a really bad idea to take it.

But you can’t take oxytocin hormone up your nose (it comes as a nasal spray) and have it do any good. You have to generate it yourself in your brain.

Awhile back after years of off and on problems I figured out how to build oxytocin consistently. These along with some simple solo activities can bring everything back.

And surprisingly enough, bringing up your Oxytocin will fix depression in most cases. They are very much related. Increasing Oxytocin levels makes you feel less anxious, happier, calmer, more satisfied with life.

This isn’t just my experience, it’s study after study that is showing the value of Oxytocin.

It’s really a case of being out of balance, as I wrote at the beginning of this blog post. And when a guy says “I’m not getting good morning erections, I’m feeling inconsistent, I don’t always have desire,” I think “yep, this is a low Oxytocin situation.”

Low Oxytocin = Desensitization, the cause of almost all men’s performance problems

This fact was established by scientists 25 years ago: that desensitization was the cause of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation and difficulty ejaculating. Then someone stumbled on Viagra and game over as far as FIXING the problem for men.

Now it’s all about getting you to take more pills.That’s what the drug companies are all about, and they train the doctors and pay for all the research.

Cures? Forget it.

It’s all about getting men to take more pills.

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But if you just rely upon the pills, you won’t get much pleasure as you could.

You won’t build the desire you want.

You won’t restore your body to the optimal health you are after.

You won’t have the good strong natural erections that men have a God-given right to expect.

 

Try the Cookster’s prescription (but always check with your doc)

Here are my concluding thoughts. Make sure you stop all masturbation and any watching of porn whatever. Those all really continue throwing your hormones out of balance. The cycle of looking at porn, or fantasizing, and masturbation, is quite harmful to your hormonal balance.

It doesn’t matter if you only VIEW porn and don’t masturbate to porn. Either way it is very desensitizing.

Also, do a lot of naked cuddling and eye gazing and hand holding with the one you love. Have long sessions of intercourse, the more the better.

And as you get older, the fewer ejaculations the better. Ejaculations drain a man. When a man is young it hardly matters but as a man gets into middle age it really takes its toll. Aim for 30 to 60 minutes of intercourse a day, with maybe one ejaculation on occasion, but not all the time.

This is what restores your sensitivity and the Oxytocin in your brain. This is what often fixes all the things you describe as far as inconsistent erections, not always having morning wood (or never having it), not feeling much, even depression and anxiety.

If you feel it would serve, register for my brand new webinar that shows you how to fix ED and get your feeling and pleasure back better than pills. Click here to see if it’s still available.

 

 

 

 

But who is 

should you fantasize during sex with your partner?

Someone writes:

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Prior to quitting porn, I had indulged in some pretty unpleasant fantasies.

I was worried that I had somehow permanently linked sexual arousal to these unsavory behaviors I was fantasizing about.

I required these fantasies to become aroused and orgasm during sex with my wife.

I couldn’t penetrate her face to face; I think it was too hard for me to project her into the fantasies that way.

Intuitively I think I understood this, but it was impossible to change while I was using porn.

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A lot of men are like Joel.

Joel uses porn, sure. 

But he doesn’t masturbate to porn. Instead…

Joel stores up porn scenes that appeal to his brain, and re-enacts them to get hard and stay hard with his wife Karen

He finds that when he has sex with his wife Karen, he has to bring up these porn scenes into his mind to get hard.

And in order to come.

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Otherwise, he may go and go and not feel much.

But Karen will eventually get tired of the pounding away and she’ll think, when will Joel finish? Rolling of eyes…

And after a bit, she won’t be all that interested in sex with Joel.

And for poor Joel, without those porn scene fantasies, he can barely get hard anymore. 

But Joel gets plenty hard when he watches his favorite porn scenes

It’s not his fault.

His brain has gotten wired to porn.

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And that has desensitized his brain to “regular” sex.

But how bad is this, really?

Can fantasies and porn interfere with sex with your partner?

There are two problems with relying on porn and fantasy to get hard or to come.

Problem #1: It feels distancing. It is a barrier to intimacy. The closeness that you desire and want so much isn’t there when you are fantasizing a three way with three 18 year olds…

Problem #2: The sexual problems become worse and worse. 

Even if your porn tastes don’t escalate.

Even if the same porn still does it for you.

Quick note on “escalation” and porn 

Many guys find their brains get used to the porn they’re into, and they escalate to more extreme forms of porn in order for their brains to respond as before…like needing a higher and higher dose of heroin to get off…

Alfred started with tame pix from Playboy, and over the years moved up to different genres…today’s high speed video porn has hurt Alfred’s brain and he’s gotten hooked on gay porn even though he’s not gay.

Not all guys escalate. Keep in mind, you can get porn induced erectile dysfunction and problems coming even if you don’t escalate!

And…this is all totally reversible and you can fix all this…don’t worry…

Fantasy and porn make it hard to get hard, and hard to come…but luckily…

It’s all fixable!

Keep in mind, the damage is temporary.

And it applies even if you don’t masturbate, but only look at porn.

The sexual problems include:

  1. Difficulty getting hard
  2. Difficulty sustaining your erection without going soft inside her
  3. Difficulty having an orgasm

So, if you find you need fantasy to get hard or stay hard, it might help you if you realize this is not a great thing, and you you decide to do something about it.

The other side of this, when its fixed, is:

  • Great erections any time any place, any positions, any possibility

  • Even if you have health problems, are 80 years old, and overweight

  • You will get great erections and keep them for as long as needed…

     

What’s stopping you is often the porn fantasies. 

Please write a comment or question. Thank you!

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