How to choose pleasure and a happy life with full erections and maximum sensitivity
This article will be an eye opener for you if you’ve ever watched yourself do something that your higher self didn’t want you to do — but you felt powerless to stop yourself.
Now it’s all explained, and it will make you feel a lot better about your life and your behavior because it shows that it’s not your fault. You’ve been suffering because you are running programs that make you unhappy and nobody ever showed you that you had a choice in the matter!
So, one of the lessons here in these articles and in my courses is that we all run programs and that we are happiest if we choose our programs rather than just submit to being slaves to them.
Because nature doesn’t care if you’re happy. Nature wants you to stick your dick into more females and get them pregnant. Once that happens, nature isn’t all that interested in your happiness.
That’s one program anyway. The “stick your dick in as many pussies as possible and come inside them” program.
And it may be a good one sometimes, but not other times.
Another program can make you very happy for the rest of your life. And give you the most remarkable and amazing sex life you’ve ever experienced.
Choose your programs, and live a happy life.
And the main choice I see is what I call the
Dopamine Track or the Oxytocin Track
I’ll talk about dopamine first.
You can’t live without dopamine.
Dopamine is the master hormone of want in the body.
Hungry? Dopamine makes you feel a desire for food. It makes you want that chocolate cake, or that ribeye steak, or those french fries.
Lusting after the new smart phone? That’s dopamine.
See a pretty girl floating around your office? Dopamine makes you want her.
There are always other hormones involved, but dopamine is central to wanting something.
When you are under the influence of dopamine, your heart races a little, you sweat a little more, your blood pressure goes up,you hyperventilate just a little. You speed up.
This is the experience, whether you are conscious of it or not, when you shop online or in a store, when you really want a new car and you’re in the showroom.
Without dopamine, we wouldn’t have sex, we wouldn’t eat and we wouldn’t live
Dopamine pushes us into decisions and into doing stuff instead of thinking about doing stuff.
When you lust after your wife or girlfriend, there is a lot of dopamine involved.
When you lust after a new girl you first meet, that’s dopamine.
So dopamine is a wonderful thing and I love my dopamine!
However, living driven primarily by dopamine, what I call the Dopamine Track, does not create happiness.
The Dopamine Track makes us very dissatisfied and unhappy
Fred is a classic example. He was with Cindy for several years and reasonably happy. Then he met young Rachel at a party. Cindy was talking to her female friends, and Fred and Rachel practically bumped into each other and Fred says, “I knew I had to have her.”
That’s the Dopamine Track.
It’s want, want, want. Need to have, need to own, need to do.
That’s our friend Dopamine.
When Fred finally hooked up with Rachel, it was incredible. It felt incredible. It wasn’t like sex with Cindy which was kind of routine and boring.
Sex with Rachel was amazing. And she was younger and tighter and everything like that.
But that didn’t last. Not for long. Because here’s the problem with the Dopamine Track: When we get what we want, we aren’t happy.
Fred found after awhile that Rachel was clingy and annoying. Sometimes he’d look at her after he had come inside her, and wondered what he was doing with her.
It’s like when you are hungry and you see a big old tasty cake. You gorge on cake and you feel sick.
The Dopamine Track makes you feel dissatisfied and unhappy after you’ve got what you want.
Then of course it sets in all over again. Fred was out looking for other women and he said to himself, what am I doing? Cindy is amazing. And I have Rachel on the side. Why am I looking at other women? How awful is that?”
This is the Dopamine Track. Always
Looking for something new
Dopamine is all about novelty. If it’s not new, it’s not interesting.
New girls, new positions, new toys, new porn, new ways to get off.
And each time, the new is exciting because dopamine is exciting, but when we get what we want, it turns dull and now it’s time for the next thrill.
This is exactly what dopamine is supposed to do. Get us off our bottoms so instead of sitting around we go out and seek new pussy, or food, or something else we need or want.
But Dopamine creates constant dissatisfaction. We want, we get, and we are unhappy.
That’s why
Dopamine is key in all addictive behaviors
Our brains have dopamine sensors and the sensors love getting bathed in dopamine. That’s part of what scientists call the “reward circuit” in the brain.
When we get into a behavior such as gambling, porn, or drugs, it’s all about constantly needing a fresh bath of dopamine on those brain sensors. We have to feel that dopamine or we get even more anxious, depressed and unhappy.
It always seems that the cure is whatever it is we are addicted to — the next bet, the next porn tube site, the next hit of free base.
It’s all the same to our brains — it’s an addiction that is actually an addiction to dopamine.
And all dopamine addiction is fixed the same way. Go cold turkey, handle the symptoms of things being flat, gray and boring…and eventually life turns colorful again.
But a gambler is always susceptible to gambling again. A drug user can return to the drug oh-so-easily.
A porn user who has kicked porn can easily fall for porn again. Or it could be web cams, or having affairs. These are addictive behaviors when the dopamine kicks in and begins controlling us.
The Dopamine Track.
And the behaviors don’t just go away when we resist them successfully.
No, they are always there as a possibility.
The brain has these deep grooves in it, these nerve pathways deeply etched in the brain. These nerve pathways are always there — they fade away with less use, but they can easily be reactivated.
And the brain loves those addictions so much!
The brain will always generate thoughts to bring back the addiction, whatever it is
“Oh, a little won’t hurt.”
“You’ve been so good, you should reward yourself.”
“Let’s just watch the porn and not masturbate to it.”
“I’ll just talk to her, I won’t try to go to bed with her.”
And a really good one:
“Now that I’ve cured myself of this addiction, let me test out how I’m cured.”
Testing is a huge perpetuator of the Dopamine Track. Our brain says, “let’s test, get hard masturbating a little, or watching a little porn, what’s wrong with that?”
A lot is wrong with that, but relapsing seems to be more common than not on the road to getting free from the Dopamine Track.
Because we want to live our lives free from this. It is too controlling, too much like being ridden by the tiger. And it never satisfies for long, always puts us in a state of chronic dissatisfaction.
And for our friend Fred, it resulted in Cindy leaving him, and Fred taking one new girl to bed after the other, without any real connection with them and without any real happiness or love.
Fortunately, there is another track that we can live on and it is a sweet one. It’s the
Joy and pleasure of the Oxytocin Track
Oxytocin is the hormone that is found in our brains and in our testicles (and in women in their brains and in various other parts.)
Oxytocin is often called the “love hormone” but I would call it the “satisfaction hormone” because it makes you feel very satisfied with your life.
It makes you feel very happy with your partner, and your children, and your mom and dad.
It makes you feel like you already have it all, that this is where you want to be, not somewhere else.
And most interesting of all is that
Oxytocin is tremendous for men’s erections
It makes erections last longer, come up quicker, and come back sooner after you ejaculate.
Guys all thing the major hormone for them is Testosterone. Testosterone is what makes a man a man, with a strong sex drive, muscles, lean and mean body, etc.
But Oxytocin is what makes a man feel happy and satisfied in his life.
What strikes me is that
Oxytocin is the most amazing way to live because you feel such incredible pleasure
It makes sex the best thing in the whole world by a country mile.
It makes you want to have sex all the time, and it makes sex last and last.
And it makes the pleasure from sex equivalent with a little practice to a whole body orgasm that can last 30 minutes or an hour every time.
(Unless you want a quickie with her in which case 10 or 15 minutes…)
There is no more “I’m satisfied now what do we do next?”
Sex is never boring on the Oxytocin Track.
The problems couples have are not your problems anymore.
It is impossible for you to get bored with your partner. She is just more and more amazing all the time.
And in every other way, living on the Oxytocin Track takes the hungry want need and desperation out of life. You already have it all.
Oxytocin helps cure depression. It makes anxiety melt away. It makes you love your family more. It makes you happy with life. It even makes you lose fat and eat less without effort.
You need both Oxytocin and Dopamine but one of the major benefits of the method and system I talk about in my courses is that your hormones get back into balance and you are no longer living on the Dopamine Track.
You can choose the Oxytocin Track and when you do, you will never look back. One of the best ways to do this is this way. Click here for a special offer only available until Saturday, January 4, 2014 midnight EST.
warmly
P.S. Please also leave a comment or question here, the more involved you get, the quicker everything will get better and the better it is for other guys here to learn from you!
How to choose pleasure and a happy life with full erections and maximum sensitivity
This article will be an eye opener for you if you’ve ever watched yourself do something that your higher self didn’t want you to do — but you felt powerless to stop yourself.
Now it’s all explained, and it will make you feel a lot better about your life and your behavior because it shows that it’s not your fault. You’ve been suffering because you are running programs that make you unhappy and nobody ever showed you that you had a choice in the matter!
So, one of the lessons here in these articles and in my courses is that we all run programs and that we are happiest if we choose our programs rather than just submit to being slaves to them.
Because nature doesn’t care if you’re happy. Nature wants you to stick your dick into more females and get them pregnant. Once that happens, nature isn’t all that interested in your happiness.
That’s one program anyway. The “stick your dick in as many pussies as possible and come inside them” program.
And it may be a good one sometimes, but not other times.
Another program can make you very happy for the rest of your life. And give you the most remarkable and amazing sex life you’ve ever experienced.
Choose your programs, and live a happy life.
And the main choice I see is what I call the
Dopamine Track or the Oxytocin Track
I’ll talk about dopamine first.
You can’t live without dopamine.
Dopamine is the master hormone of want in the body.
Hungry? Dopamine makes you feel a desire for food. It makes you want that chocolate cake, or that ribeye steak, or those french fries.
Lusting after the new smart phone? That’s dopamine.
See a pretty girl floating around your office? Dopamine makes you want her.
There are always other hormones involved, but dopamine is central to wanting something.
When you are under the influence of dopamine, your heart races a little, you sweat a little more, your blood pressure goes up,you hyperventilate just a little. You speed up.
This is the experience, whether you are conscious of it or not, when you shop online or in a store, when you really want a new car and you’re in the showroom.
Without dopamine, we wouldn’t have sex, we wouldn’t eat and we wouldn’t live
Dopamine pushes us into decisions and into doing stuff instead of thinking about doing stuff.
When you lust after your wife or girlfriend, there is a lot of dopamine involved.
When you lust after a new girl you first meet, that’s dopamine.
So dopamine is a wonderful thing and I love my dopamine!
However, living driven primarily by dopamine, what I call the Dopamine Track, does not create happiness.
The Dopamine Track makes us very dissatisfied and unhappy
Fred is a classic example. He was with Cindy for several years and reasonably happy. Then he met young Rachel at a party. Cindy was talking to her female friends, and Fred and Rachel practically bumped into each other and Fred says, “I knew I had to have her.”
That’s the Dopamine Track.
It’s want, want, want. Need to have, need to own, need to do.
That’s our friend Dopamine.
When Fred finally hooked up with Rachel, it was incredible. It felt incredible. It wasn’t like sex with Cindy which was kind of routine and boring.
Sex with Rachel was amazing. And she was younger and tighter and everything like that.
But that didn’t last. Not for long. Because here’s the problem with the Dopamine Track: When we get what we want, we aren’t happy.
Fred found after awhile that Rachel was clingy and annoying. Sometimes he’d look at her after he had come inside her, and wondered what he was doing with her.
It’s like when you are hungry and you see a big old tasty cake. You gorge on cake and you feel sick.
The Dopamine Track makes you feel dissatisfied and unhappy after you’ve got what you want.
Then of course it sets in all over again. Fred was out looking for other women and he said to himself, what am I doing? Cindy is amazing. And I have Rachel on the side. Why am I looking at other women? How awful is that?”
This is the Dopamine Track. Always
Looking for something new
Dopamine is all about novelty. If it’s not new, it’s not interesting.
New girls, new positions, new toys, new porn, new ways to get off.
And each time, the new is exciting because dopamine is exciting, but when we get what we want, it turns dull and now it’s time for the next thrill.
This is exactly what dopamine is supposed to do. Get us off our bottoms so instead of sitting around we go out and seek new pussy, or food, or something else we need or want.
But Dopamine creates constant dissatisfaction. We want, we get, and we are unhappy.
That’s why
Dopamine is key in all addictive behaviors
Our brains have dopamine sensors and the sensors love getting bathed in dopamine. That’s part of what scientists call the “reward circuit” in the brain.
When we get into a behavior such as gambling, porn, or drugs, it’s all about constantly needing a fresh bath of dopamine on those brain sensors. We have to feel that dopamine or we get even more anxious, depressed and unhappy.
It always seems that the cure is whatever it is we are addicted to — the next bet, the next porn tube site, the next hit of free base.
It’s all the same to our brains — it’s an addiction that is actually an addiction to dopamine.
And all dopamine addiction is fixed the same way. Go cold turkey, handle the symptoms of things being flat, gray and boring…and eventually life turns colorful again.
But a gambler is always susceptible to gambling again. A drug user can return to the drug oh-so-easily.
A porn user who has kicked porn can easily fall for porn again. Or it could be web cams, or having affairs. These are addictive behaviors when the dopamine kicks in and begins controlling us.
The Dopamine Track.
And the behaviors don’t just go away when we resist them successfully.
No, they are always there as a possibility.
The brain has these deep grooves in it, these nerve pathways deeply etched in the brain. These nerve pathways are always there — they fade away with less use, but they can easily be reactivated.
And the brain loves those addictions so much!
The brain will always generate thoughts to bring back the addiction, whatever it is
“Oh, a little won’t hurt.”
“You’ve been so good, you should reward yourself.”
“Let’s just watch the porn and not masturbate to it.”
“I’ll just talk to her, I won’t try to go to bed with her.”
And a really good one:
“Now that I’ve cured myself of this addiction, let me test out how I’m cured.”
Testing is a huge perpetuator of the Dopamine Track. Our brain says, “let’s test, get hard masturbating a little, or watching a little porn, what’s wrong with that?”
A lot is wrong with that, but relapsing seems to be more common than not on the road to getting free from the Dopamine Track.
Because we want to live our lives free from this. It is too controlling, too much like being ridden by the tiger. And it never satisfies for long, always puts us in a state of chronic dissatisfaction.
And for our friend Fred, it resulted in Cindy leaving him, and Fred taking one new girl to bed after the other, without any real connection with them and without any real happiness or love.
Fortunately, there is another track that we can live on and it is a sweet one. It’s the
Joy and pleasure of the Oxytocin Track
Oxytocin is the hormone that is found in our brains and in our testicles (and in women in their brains and in various other parts.)
Oxytocin is often called the “love hormone” but I would call it the “satisfaction hormone” because it makes you feel very satisfied with your life.
It makes you feel very happy with your partner, and your children, and your mom and dad.
It makes you feel like you already have it all, that this is where you want to be, not somewhere else.
And most interesting of all is that
Oxytocin is tremendous for men’s erections
It makes erections last longer, come up quicker, and come back sooner after you ejaculate.
Guys all thing the major hormone for them is Testosterone. Testosterone is what makes a man a man, with a strong sex drive, muscles, lean and mean body, etc.
But Oxytocin is what makes a man feel happy and satisfied in his life.
What strikes me is that
Oxytocin is the most amazing way to live because you feel such incredible pleasure
It makes sex the best thing in the whole world by a country mile.
It makes you want to have sex all the time, and it makes sex last and last.
And it makes the pleasure from sex equivalent with a little practice to a whole body orgasm that can last 30 minutes or an hour every time.
(Unless you want a quickie with her in which case 10 or 15 minutes…)
There is no more “I’m satisfied now what do we do next?”
Sex is never boring on the Oxytocin Track.
The problems couples have are not your problems anymore.
It is impossible for you to get bored with your partner. She is just more and more amazing all the time.
And in every other way, living on the Oxytocin Track takes the hungry want need and desperation out of life. You already have it all.
Oxytocin helps cure depression. It makes anxiety melt away. It makes you love your family more. It makes you happy with life. It even makes you lose fat and eat less without effort.
You need both Oxytocin and Dopamine but one of the major benefits of the method and system I talk about in my courses is that your hormones get back into balance and you are no longer living on the Dopamine Track.
You can choose the Oxytocin Track and when you do, you will never look back. One of the best ways to do this is this way. Click here for a special offer only available until Saturday, January 4, 2014 midnight EST.
warmly
P.S. Please also leave a comment or question here, the more involved you get, the quicker everything will get better and the better it is for other guys here to learn from you!
How to choose pleasure and a happy life with full erections and maximum sensitivity
This article will be an eye opener for you if you’ve ever watched yourself do something that your higher self didn’t want you to do — but you felt powerless to stop yourself.
Now it’s all explained, and it will make you feel a lot better about your life and your behavior because it shows that it’s not your fault. You’ve been suffering because you are running programs that make you unhappy and nobody ever showed you that you had a choice in the matter!
So, one of the lessons here in these articles and in my courses is that we all run programs and that we are happiest if we choose our programs rather than just submit to being slaves to them.
Because nature doesn’t care if you’re happy. Nature wants you to stick your dick into more females and get them pregnant. Once that happens, nature isn’t all that interested in your happiness.
That’s one program anyway. The “stick your dick in as many pussies as possible and come inside them” program.
And it may be a good one sometimes, but not other times.
Another program can make you very happy for the rest of your life. And give you the most remarkable and amazing sex life you’ve ever experienced.
Choose your programs, and live a happy life.
And the main choice I see is what I call the
Dopamine Track or the Oxytocin Track
I’ll talk about dopamine first.
You can’t live without dopamine.
Dopamine is the master hormone of want in the body.
Hungry? Dopamine makes you feel a desire for food. It makes you want that chocolate cake, or that ribeye steak, or those french fries.
Lusting after the new smart phone? That’s dopamine.
See a pretty girl floating around your office? Dopamine makes you want her.
There are always other hormones involved, but dopamine is central to wanting something.
When you are under the influence of dopamine, your heart races a little, you sweat a little more, your blood pressure goes up,you hyperventilate just a little. You speed up.
This is the experience, whether you are conscious of it or not, when you shop online or in a store, when you really want a new car and you’re in the showroom.
Without dopamine, we wouldn’t have sex, we wouldn’t eat and we wouldn’t live
Dopamine pushes us into decisions and into doing stuff instead of thinking about doing stuff.
When you lust after your wife or girlfriend, there is a lot of dopamine involved.
When you lust after a new girl you first meet, that’s dopamine.
So dopamine is a wonderful thing and I love my dopamine!
However, living driven primarily by dopamine, what I call the Dopamine Track, does not create happiness.
The Dopamine Track makes us very dissatisfied and unhappy
Fred is a classic example. He was with Cindy for several years and reasonably happy. Then he met young Rachel at a party. Cindy was talking to her female friends, and Fred and Rachel practically bumped into each other and Fred says, “I knew I had to have her.”
That’s the Dopamine Track.
It’s want, want, want. Need to have, need to own, need to do.
That’s our friend Dopamine.
When Fred finally hooked up with Rachel, it was incredible. It felt incredible. It wasn’t like sex with Cindy which was kind of routine and boring.
Sex with Rachel was amazing. And she was younger and tighter and everything like that.
But that didn’t last. Not for long. Because here’s the problem with the Dopamine Track: When we get what we want, we aren’t happy.
Fred found after awhile that Rachel was clingy and annoying. Sometimes he’d look at her after he had come inside her, and wondered what he was doing with her.
It’s like when you are hungry and you see a big old tasty cake. You gorge on cake and you feel sick.
The Dopamine Track makes you feel dissatisfied and unhappy after you’ve got what you want.
Then of course it sets in all over again. Fred was out looking for other women and he said to himself, what am I doing? Cindy is amazing. And I have Rachel on the side. Why am I looking at other women? How awful is that?”
This is the Dopamine Track. Always
Looking for something new
Dopamine is all about novelty. If it’s not new, it’s not interesting.
New girls, new positions, new toys, new porn, new ways to get off.
And each time, the new is exciting because dopamine is exciting, but when we get what we want, it turns dull and now it’s time for the next thrill.
This is exactly what dopamine is supposed to do. Get us off our bottoms so instead of sitting around we go out and seek new pussy, or food, or something else we need or want.
But Dopamine creates constant dissatisfaction. We want, we get, and we are unhappy.
That’s why
Dopamine is key in all addictive behaviors
Our brains have dopamine sensors and the sensors love getting bathed in dopamine. That’s part of what scientists call the “reward circuit” in the brain.
When we get into a behavior such as gambling, porn, or drugs, it’s all about constantly needing a fresh bath of dopamine on those brain sensors. We have to feel that dopamine or we get even more anxious, depressed and unhappy.
It always seems that the cure is whatever it is we are addicted to — the next bet, the next porn tube site, the next hit of free base.
It’s all the same to our brains — it’s an addiction that is actually an addiction to dopamine.
And all dopamine addiction is fixed the same way. Go cold turkey, handle the symptoms of things being flat, gray and boring…and eventually life turns colorful again.
But a gambler is always susceptible to gambling again. A drug user can return to the drug oh-so-easily.
A porn user who has kicked porn can easily fall for porn again. Or it could be web cams, or having affairs. These are addictive behaviors when the dopamine kicks in and begins controlling us.
The Dopamine Track.
And the behaviors don’t just go away when we resist them successfully.
No, they are always there as a possibility.
The brain has these deep grooves in it, these nerve pathways deeply etched in the brain. These nerve pathways are always there — they fade away with less use, but they can easily be reactivated.
And the brain loves those addictions so much!
The brain will always generate thoughts to bring back the addiction, whatever it is
“Oh, a little won’t hurt.”
“You’ve been so good, you should reward yourself.”
“Let’s just watch the porn and not masturbate to it.”
“I’ll just talk to her, I won’t try to go to bed with her.”
And a really good one:
“Now that I’ve cured myself of this addiction, let me test out how I’m cured.”
Testing is a huge perpetuator of the Dopamine Track. Our brain says, “let’s test, get hard masturbating a little, or watching a little porn, what’s wrong with that?”
A lot is wrong with that, but relapsing seems to be more common than not on the road to getting free from the Dopamine Track.
Because we want to live our lives free from this. It is too controlling, too much like being ridden by the tiger. And it never satisfies for long, always puts us in a state of chronic dissatisfaction.
And for our friend Fred, it resulted in Cindy leaving him, and Fred taking one new girl to bed after the other, without any real connection with them and without any real happiness or love.
Fortunately, there is another track that we can live on and it is a sweet one. It’s the
Joy and pleasure of the Oxytocin Track
Oxytocin is the hormone that is found in our brains and in our testicles (and in women in their brains and in various other parts.)
Oxytocin is often called the “love hormone” but I would call it the “satisfaction hormone” because it makes you feel very satisfied with your life.
It makes you feel very happy with your partner, and your children, and your mom and dad.
It makes you feel like you already have it all, that this is where you want to be, not somewhere else.
And most interesting of all is that
Oxytocin is tremendous for men’s erections
It makes erections last longer, come up quicker, and come back sooner after you ejaculate.
Guys all thing the major hormone for them is Testosterone. Testosterone is what makes a man a man, with a strong sex drive, muscles, lean and mean body, etc.
But Oxytocin is what makes a man feel happy and satisfied in his life.
What strikes me is that
Oxytocin is the most amazing way to live because you feel such incredible pleasure
It makes sex the best thing in the whole world by a country mile.
It makes you want to have sex all the time, and it makes sex last and last.
And it makes the pleasure from sex equivalent with a little practice to a whole body orgasm that can last 30 minutes or an hour every time.
(Unless you want a quickie with her in which case 10 or 15 minutes…)
There is no more “I’m satisfied now what do we do next?”
Sex is never boring on the Oxytocin Track.
The problems couples have are not your problems anymore.
It is impossible for you to get bored with your partner. She is just more and more amazing all the time.
And in every other way, living on the Oxytocin Track takes the hungry want need and desperation out of life. You already have it all.
Oxytocin helps cure depression. It makes anxiety melt away. It makes you love your family more. It makes you happy with life. It even makes you lose fat and eat less without effort.
You need both Oxytocin and Dopamine but one of the major benefits of the method and system I talk about in my courses is that your hormones get back into balance and you are no longer living on the Dopamine Track.
You can choose the Oxytocin Track and when you do, you will never look back. One of the best ways to do this is this way. Click here for a special offer only available until Saturday, January 4, 2014 midnight EST.
warmly
P.S. Please also leave a comment or question here, the more involved you get, the quicker everything will get better and the better it is for other guys here to learn from you!
erections come and go – why? And why no desire for my wife?
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I’m a 54 yo man. I’ve been dealing with this for the last 20 yrs. I believe a lot of my problem began due to lack of feeling desired from my wife which left me feeling what is wrong with me. I’m currently divorced 2 half yrs now. Last 10 yrs I went through. Clinical depression taking 2 anti-depressants which killed my drive & erections after divorcing I came off my anti-depressants. T hat helped some. But still deal with ED. My Dr says I have profermance anxiety. I get night erections multiple times a night for a few weeks then it’s like they leave me for a few weeks. When I go to have sex with someone; most of the time I get erected then lose it & sometimes I don’t ever get up. It’s frustrating. I’ve learned Levitra works best for my with the BP meds & cholerterole meds I take but still not a guantaree either. I do have low testerstone had gotten down to 222 and currently taking Andor-Gel 1.62% and been on it a yr now which brought my T levels back up to 755. Suppose to use 3 pumps daily. But have backed down to 1 pump daily. I’ve been on this a yr now & starting to notice my testicles starting to shrink. With the Andro-gel not boosting my sex drive nor helping with erections I’m wondering why take this. I can’t tell it’s helped me any is why I have backed off this own my own. When I’m having regular night time erections the sensentitivity in my penis is better. Still not great. But when I’m not noticing or waking with night erections the sensivity is less. It’s rare when I really feet Horney. I’d love to feel this on a regular basis again. Can u help me? I sure hope so. |
Rick, here’s what I see when I read your note.
I see a guy who has some underlying metabolic problem that leads to all sorts of health issues.
The doctors treat just the symptoms. Their approach:
Your testosterone is low, so take testosterone hormones. You aren’t getting good erections, so take Levitra.
I’m in my 50s also and I’m fortunate that I found out how this works. I’m taking nothing and haven’t for years. It’s because I’ve figured out what the causes of these problems are.
If you fix the cause, you an eliminate the need to take anything. And it’s far better because you are healthier, live happier and avoid medication and side effects.
So what is the underlying medical issue? I am hopelessly unqualified to determine that. But it is safe to say that your body is out of balance and I will let you in on one secret right here that can change everything.
Speaking of which, I don’t buy the doctor’s explanation about performance anxiety either. All the total symptoms you talk about:
Lack of desire for your wife (if I understood that correctly)
Poor erections and inconsistent erections
Blood pressure issues
Low testosterone
These can all be fixed when you change your lifestyle just a bit.
I address all this in my T Liftoff Formula home study course, so I won’t get into it here. That course shows you in a series of videos how to raise your testosterone, end the need for blood pressure meds and cholesterol meds, and get a lot more sensitivity in your penis. Better erections. More desire.
I want to talk specifically in the remaining part here about the angle of inconsistent erections.
You should wake up with an erection every morning. If you don’t something may be wrong
Yes, every day, a man should wake up with a strong morning erection. Morning wood as us guys often call it.
(I wonder if the Beatles had this in mind with Norwegian Wood, LOL…)
Morning wood is a very good diagnostic tool. If you aren’t having it, it tells you that your hormones are a bit out of whack. You might miss a day here or there, but overall it is quite important to consistently have morning erections.
Now let’s talk a key point on hormone levels.
Hormone levels are very complicated and not what people and doctors think.
The hormone that can fix almost everything — and no it’s not testosterone
Of all the important hormones perhaps none is more important to desire and performance as Oxytocin.
Oxytocin, the hormone of that strong loving feeling you have for someone.
Oxytocin love brings the deepest level of joy and desire for someone.
Oxytocin builds strong erections.
It shortens the time between when you can come and then get another erection and come again.
It increases your sensitivity off the charts.
Then a companion hormone is quite important to. I’m talking…
…dopamine, the hormone of want and needing someone or something. Dopamine = want.
Dopamine driven behaviors cause us to smoke, drink, gamble, eat, have sex, ask a woman out, buy a new iPhone. Dopamine is a fine hormone because it’s fun to want someone physically right now.
But dopamine also creates the “pleasure pain” meaning with the pleasure of wanting, comes the pain afterwards. It’s done. Over. Never as good as I thought it would be.
Don’t build your life around dopamine…
So dopamine is not a dependable hormone to build your life around. It’s something to watch.
The more of something you want, and the more you physically feel that wanting…well that’s dopamine.
You may notice when you lust after someone or something…how you are breathing faster, your heart speeds up, and how you are hyped up…that’s true if you lust after a girl or a new iPhone. It’s exactly the same.
It’s all dopamine.
And to a smaller degree dopamine drives you to check your email or Facebook account all during the day, or your text messages. Something new might be there. Something new is there! It’s a little spurt of dopamine in the brain.
Dopamine behaviors are addictive. They’re all about addiction.
But we need dopamine. I like being addicted to food, drink and sex, or I’d die. Dopamine is cool but you don’t want it in the driver’s seat. You don’t want dopamine running your life.
There are a bunch more hormones but here is what I want to really say here. Consistent erections and morning wood every morning…zero problems getting and staying hard…being able to last a long time…feeling great desire for your girlfriend or wife…this is made possible by one thing.
Increase the oxytocin in your brain, and you will usually have consistent desire, erections and performance
At this point, you’re saying, “hey can I get Oxytocin and take it like a pill?”
Nope, unfortunately. It’s available as a nasal spray but a really bad idea to take it.
But you can’t take oxytocin hormone up your nose (it comes as a nasal spray) and have it do any good. You have to generate it yourself in your brain.
Awhile back after years of off and on problems I figured out how to build oxytocin consistently. These along with some simple solo activities can bring everything back.
And surprisingly enough, bringing up your Oxytocin will fix depression in most cases. They are very much related. Increasing Oxytocin levels makes you feel less anxious, happier, calmer, more satisfied with life.
This isn’t just my experience, it’s study after study that is showing the value of Oxytocin.
It’s really a case of being out of balance, as I wrote at the beginning of this blog post. And when a guy says “I’m not getting good morning erections, I’m feeling inconsistent, I don’t always have desire,” I think “yep, this is a low Oxytocin situation.”
Low Oxytocin = Desensitization, the cause of almost all men’s performance problems
This fact was established by scientists 25 years ago: that desensitization was the cause of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation and difficulty ejaculating. Then someone stumbled on Viagra and game over as far as FIXING the problem for men.
Now it’s all about getting you to take more pills.That’s what the drug companies are all about, and they train the doctors and pay for all the research.
Cures? Forget it.
It’s all about getting men to take more pills.
But if you just rely upon the pills, you won’t get much pleasure as you could.
You won’t build the desire you want.
You won’t restore your body to the optimal health you are after.
You won’t have the good strong natural erections that men have a God-given right to expect.
Try the Cookster’s prescription (but always check with your doc)
Here are my concluding thoughts. Make sure you stop all masturbation and any watching of porn whatever. Those all really continue throwing your hormones out of balance. The cycle of looking at porn, or fantasizing, and masturbation, is quite harmful to your hormonal balance.
It doesn’t matter if you only VIEW porn and don’t masturbate to porn. Either way it is very desensitizing.
Also, do a lot of naked cuddling and eye gazing and hand holding with the one you love. Have long sessions of intercourse, the more the better.
And as you get older, the fewer ejaculations the better. Ejaculations drain a man. When a man is young it hardly matters but as a man gets into middle age it really takes its toll. Aim for 30 to 60 minutes of intercourse a day, with maybe one ejaculation on occasion, but not all the time.
This is what restores your sensitivity and the Oxytocin in your brain. This is what often fixes all the things you describe as far as inconsistent erections, not always having morning wood (or never having it), not feeling much, even depression and anxiety.
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