1000 Vaginas

Ever watch a dog eat its dinner?

A dog gobbles up his food quick as can be. One minute the dish is down, the next moment it’s all scarfed up.

Dogs eat this way because they evolved to compete with other dogs. They evolved to get as much food as quickly as possible before the next dog got it and left nothing.

Today, our family pet dog doesn’t need to eat fast. He can enjoy his meal slowly. He can savor it.

But dogs still have their instinctual programming to eat as quickly as they can.

It’s sad in a way. I wish ol’ Bowser would just taste his food. But his programming doesn’t allow him to take his time.

What if you and I are just as conditioned? And what if we are conditioned sexually by nature to have poor sex, quick sex, and to become unhappy with our partners and endlessly dissatisfied?

What if…

We evolved to have sex a certain way…which today doesn’t make us happy or satisfied

So that brings me to today’s topic which is quite an interesting one.

And I have to thank Len for coming up with the “1000 vaginas syndrome” for the problem of porn use and the fact that excessive novelty today can desensitize us.

Our cellphones, our computers, can cause us to have problems getting hard and staying hard.

Even this photo can cause a little more desensitization. I’d advise you to defocus your eyes or look past it. Not let yourself get too “into it”…if you are recovering from erectile issues…

Here’s the full story.

Len realized after reading a recent article here that porn was causing ED and other problems and he has quit porn and masturbation for a bit.

Well, hopefully porn quitting is forever. Masturbation is fine in limited doses as long as there isn’t porn in there.

I thought I’d talk about a part of this that is key to recovery, and that is, avoiding triggers like Facebook and Youtube and Craigslist and dating sites.

It’s the quest for new bodies, new positions, new women, new situations that is so desensitizing

A lot of guys think it’s the porn itself, but that is only part of what is so crippling for guys’ brains and penises.

The other part of it is novelty. New this, new that. New girls.

And the reason is that we are designed in our “reptile brain” to become more excited and turned on by a new woman.

Here’s the scenario. Thor Caveboy spends his days and nights with Thorette, the Cavegirl.

They sleep together, eat together, hold each other and then it’s penis-in-vagina time for a quick bit of horizontal action. Thor ejaculates into Thorette and rolls over onto a matt of grass in the floor of the cave and goes to sleep. 

One day, Thor is scouting out a new area to hunt some delicious looking rabbits, when he hears an intriguing sound. He sees this very young, fertile female in a clearing. He gets hard seeing her, and she sees him and figures, hey why not, try out a little Thor action.

(Women are designed to take these opportunities also…they can get pregnant by a big virile man like Thor, and have their life partner bring up the baby without knowing it isn’t his…well, this presents an advantage to a girl genetically because she might create a genetically superior baby girl or boy with Thor’s genes…)

So now, Thor and this new girl go at it. Thor zips up his cavepants and continues on his way, and the girl continues on her way.

This is why men are designed to get hard and be able to come so fast.

Remember the dog eating his dinner?

And it’s also why men are designed to find novel women appealing. So men can take advantage of these opportunities at the drop of a hat.

In fact, a guy who is having “normal type” sex with a girl for a long time will often grow bored with his girl. A new girl, well that’s entirely different.

The new girl can stimulate the guy in a new way.

It works this way because

Nature wants you to get girls pregnant, not to be happy

We’re designed to see an opportunity and take it, right then and there. And that is why we are designed to get stimulated when a novel female is around.

But today’s Internet produces 1000 vaginas, or 1000 naked girls, in a parade of novelty. It’s like a constant parade of cake and candy and cookies to a diabetic. Or syringe after syringe of concentrated heroin to the addict. You get the picture.

 

And that’s how it is with porn. 1000 vaginas describes it perfectly, but it doesn’t have to be vaginas.

Let me be very clear.

Even surfing fully clothed pix of women on “legit” dating sites, or Craigslist personals, can cause ED problems

That’s because even surfing fully clothed pix of women on a “legit” dating site can be very desensitizing. After you’ve recovered from your erection problems, you’ll notice that surfing novel females online hits you pretty hard.

It makes your dick softer.

It makes you feel less satisfied about your partner.

It makes you feel less satisfied with your life.

Surfing novel females, even fully clothed, is just as bad as porn in many ways.

The “one girl after the other” thing gets our heart beating faster, our blood pressure up, our penis slightly harder, and worse is it desensitizes our brains just a little more with each girl’s picture.

So if you are having problems getting an erection, or maintaining one, or problems with ejaculation, or not being very hard, or going soft when you don’t want to…you are very smart if you eliminate all this:

• No dating site pix
• No surfing Youtube
• No Facebook except for posting a quick message now and then
• No looking at pix your male friends forward to you of nude women
• No Craigslist personals

This will help your recovery quicker than anything else.

And if you haven’t done so, you can today register for this eye opening webinar “From Dead Down There to Raging Confidence.) Click here to attend the webinar

And please leave your experiences here — put a comment or question below.

warmly

 

Wow, my dick problems are getting better – the three stages of recovery

What does it look like to recover and reverse your desensitization.

I thought I’d show you what this looks like here today. And make some silly puns at the same time.

Ready? So, let’s focus first on

Stage 1 – realize that desensitization is the cause of the problem

This is where most guys are today. They know they are having issues. Their penis isn’t getting as hard as it did before. 

Or they have trouble coming. It’s grind away time with not much feeling and not able to close the deal. 

Or they come too fast and it’s over so quick. How embarrassing to shoot your wad so fast and the dick goes limp and she hasn’t had much time yet to even warm up.

Or, perhaps the dick isn’t getting hard at all.

Or it’s only hard for masturbation and not for intercourse.

Or maybe it takes so much work on her part to get the dick hard that it’s like climbing Mount Everest for something that should be fun and easy, right?

No wonder guys have so many problems today and think they are going downhill and need chemicals to pep them up. It’s because

Big pharma has given us a cock and bull story.

(Aahaha, pun intended).

One big drug company accidentally discovered Viagra and how quickly they realized, hey we can make ten bucks every time a guy wants to stick it in his girl. At an average of almost twice a week that’ like seventy bucks a month.

(All the other big drug companies soon came up with similar drugs, what are called in the drug industry “me too” drugs because those other drugs compete with Viagra as in “me too, I keep men hard too, take me instead of Viagra” but these all work the same exact way Viagra works, although some may cause fewer or more side effects or last longer.)

(By the way, guys who make it through my method end up having sex every day, several times a day, or every other day…and for 30 or 60 minutes, not the average of under 3 minutes.)

That Viagra discovery and profit calculation was the beginning of the end for guys who aren’t being told the truth. In working with guys I find that

ED pills make desensitization worse

The pills may not cause desensitization to get worse, but they cause a man to engage in the same type of sex and this perhaps is the reason that with the pills, guys often tend to get worse. The pills work for awhile, but they don’t increase the pleasure or sensation, and ultimately erection problems are worse. And stuff like “I can’t come easily” gets worse…

And, after all, the docs themselves are well meaning. I don’t blame the docs for this. They go through medical school without knowing dick about this problem or its cause (pun intended again) because the drug companies call the shots in terms of research and education.

And drug companies don’t want doctors to know the truth either.

So the docs often have the problem themselves. Often. I can’t tell you how many medical guys I’ve spoken to and helped change their life. They are as surprised as anyone to learn about desensitization.

And it’s all because the real cause is being kept from guys. It’s a big conspiracy in my opinion.

So now a guy knows the problem, so the next step is to move to stage 2 and 

Stop porn viewing, fantasy and masturbation (for awhile)

Porn viewing is what causes a lot of dick problems. If you view porn even once a week, or even once a month, and you are not happy with your erections, then you must cut out the porn.

And it isn’t just porn. It’s also just seeing a parade of novel women, surfing personal ads or dating sites. Getting triggers from ads on TV or billboards or emails or Facebook.

It’s challenging stuff. When someone hasn’t recovered and they say, “Matt, I quit porn etc.” I ask them about fantasy and usually this is the culprit.

Fantasy is to the reptile brain the same as something real. But it’s much more intense than something real.

I mean, in the real world I stick my penis in her vagina and we dwell together and it ain’t like the porn scenes.

Plus, I have the same woman that I stick my penis in, not different ones. My brain as a man is very sensitive to seeing a parade of hot fake or unavailable women and it loses sensitivity to my real woman when it sees to many of those fake hotties.

It’s something I never understood before. Because my brain was so desensitized for like the past zillion years that I never noticed it.

Now I notice this effect a lot. I was explaining this to a friend yesterday. I don’t like looking at sexy photos of women because I am so aware of how it affects my perceptions and pleasures with my real woman.

I love looking at a pretty girl, of course. And I do all the time. But I avoid looking at photos, two dimensional images, anything that triggers a sexual thought and that isn’t real.

It just messes up my perceptions and my feelings. And it is doing the same to you but you may not be aware of it yet.

So now fortunately stage 3 happens…

Become much more attractive to women…and begin having a much better time with sex

This is when you get the fact that partner sex and masturbation are so different.

Partner sex becomes really fantastic again. And masturbation has lost its attraction.

Quite frankly, it can get to a point where you don’t masturbate at all.

Not because you are trying not to, but because it is so satisfying having this time with your penis in her vagina and soaking her up that it’s just not even interesting anymore to masturbate.

And the women all over become so much more attracted to you and start giving you signals everywhere.

 

I’m nothing special in the looks department. And even I can’t go out without some woman giving me a signal, perhaps touching my shoulder at the restaurant like happened the other day. Or giving me a frank stare and tossing her hair.

It’s not like I’m anything incredible looking either. It’s just the power of normal male sexual energy.

Because today

Women aren’t used to basking in a man’s built up (normal) sexual energy

They are used to guys who spill their seed at every opportunity and guys who can’t get it up, and guys who are so porn-ified.

Of course there are plenty of virile men but the percentage today is way down.

So you stand out at this point (pun intended, LOL.) You really do. (Note to young guys: get with it, you have an edge in the looks department but older guys who recover are going to be eating your lunch.)

It’s amazing how much confidence you show at this point, even if you are normally somewhat inhibited, shy or reserved.

It doesn’t matter if shy, reserved or even timid is your outward personality.

Inside, your reptile brain is back into balance and it’s a naturally confident brain, and one that just wants to love and make love.

Your reptile brain is now completely confident and it puts out pheromones and confidence signals that women pick up on without your having to do anything, think anything or be anything but who you are. 

It’s at this point that I find 

Men are surprised to discover how confident they become

It’s striking, and this confidence isn’t about just being confident with women.

Here’s a huge secret of attraction and it doesn’t matter if it’s re-attracting your wife to wake her up sexually or landing a gorgeous girlfriend who really digs on you.

The secret is that women are attracted to men who are confident with other men.

That’s right. If you are confident in your dealings with other men, women will be all over you.

And what makes you confident with men and with women is that same male sexual energy.

 

It surges in you and makes you feel like a total winner. And men get out of your way. They defer to you. They respect you even if you don’t say a word. You don’t have to say a word, they get these signals automatically.

This is what makes you more alpha if you want to call it that. And that attracts women and makes you even more alpha, in a virtuous circle.

There is a lot more to all this. But what you may want to do is head over to my From Dead Down There to Raging Sexual Confidence webinar which I’m able to give, thanks to my publisher allowing me to. Click to see what it’s all about.

And please leave a comment, question or concern here. Thank you

warmly

 

 

 

Stop trying to get an erection – and get an erection

What does it look like to recover and reverse your desensitization.

I thought I’d show you what this looks like here today. And make some silly puns at the same time.

Ready? So, let’s focus first on

Stage 1 – realize that desensitization is the cause of the problem

This is where most guys are today. They know they are having issues. Their penis isn’t getting as hard as it did before. 

Or they have trouble coming. It’s grind away time with not much feeling and not able to close the deal. 

Or they come too fast and it’s over so quick. How embarrassing to shoot your wad so fast and the dick goes limp and she hasn’t had much time yet to even warm up.

Or, perhaps the dick isn’t getting hard at all.

Or it’s only hard for masturbation and not for intercourse.

Or maybe it takes so much work on her part to get the dick hard that it’s like climbing Mount Everest for something that should be fun and easy, right?

No wonder guys have so many problems today and think they are going downhill and need chemicals to pep them up. It’s because

Big pharma has given us a cock and bull story.

(Aahaha, pun intended).

One big drug company accidentally discovered Viagra and how quickly they realized, hey we can make ten bucks every time a guy wants to stick it in his girl. At an average of almost twice a week that’ like seventy bucks a month.

(All the other big drug companies soon came up with similar drugs, what are called in the drug industry “me too” drugs because those other drugs compete with Viagra as in “me too, I keep men hard too, take me instead of Viagra” but these all work the same exact way Viagra works, although some may cause fewer or more side effects or last longer.)

(By the way, guys who make it through my method end up having sex every day, several times a day, or every other day…and for 30 or 60 minutes, not the average of under 3 minutes.)

That Viagra discovery and profit calculation was the beginning of the end for guys who aren’t being told the truth. In working with guys I find that

ED pills make desensitization worse

The pills may not cause desensitization to get worse, but they cause a man to engage in the same type of sex and this perhaps is the reason that with the pills, guys often tend to get worse. The pills work for awhile, but they don’t increase the pleasure or sensation, and ultimately erection problems are worse. And stuff like “I can’t come easily” gets worse…

And, after all, the docs themselves are well meaning. I don’t blame the docs for this. They go through medical school without knowing dick about this problem or its cause (pun intended again) because the drug companies call the shots in terms of research and education.

And drug companies don’t want doctors to know the truth either.

So the docs often have the problem themselves. Often. I can’t tell you how many medical guys I’ve spoken to and helped change their life. They are as surprised as anyone to learn about desensitization.

And it’s all because the real cause is being kept from guys. It’s a big conspiracy in my opinion.

So now a guy knows the problem, so the next step is to move to stage 2 and 

Stop porn viewing, fantasy and masturbation (for awhile)

Porn viewing is what causes a lot of dick problems. If you view porn even once a week, or even once a month, and you are not happy with your erections, then you must cut out the porn.

And it isn’t just porn. It’s also just seeing a parade of novel women, surfing personal ads or dating sites. Getting triggers from ads on TV or billboards or emails or Facebook.

It’s challenging stuff. When someone hasn’t recovered and they say, “Matt, I quit porn etc.” I ask them about fantasy and usually this is the culprit.

Fantasy is to the reptile brain the same as something real. But it’s much more intense than something real.

I mean, in the real world I stick my penis in her vagina and we dwell together and it ain’t like the porn scenes.

Plus, I have the same woman that I stick my penis in, not different ones. My brain as a man is very sensitive to seeing a parade of hot fake or unavailable women and it loses sensitivity to my real woman when it sees to many of those fake hotties.

It’s something I never understood before. Because my brain was so desensitized for like the past zillion years that I never noticed it.

Now I notice this effect a lot. I was explaining this to a friend yesterday. I don’t like looking at sexy photos of women because I am so aware of how it affects my perceptions and pleasures with my real woman.

I love looking at a pretty girl, of course. And I do all the time. But I avoid looking at photos, two dimensional images, anything that triggers a sexual thought and that isn’t real.

It just messes up my perceptions and my feelings. And it is doing the same to you but you may not be aware of it yet.

So now fortunately stage 3 happens…

Become much more attractive to women…and begin having a much better time with sex

This is when you get the fact that partner sex and masturbation are so different.

Partner sex becomes really fantastic again. And masturbation has lost its attraction.

Quite frankly, it can get to a point where you don’t masturbate at all.

Not because you are trying not to, but because it is so satisfying having this time with your penis in her vagina and soaking her up that it’s just not even interesting anymore to masturbate.

And the women all over become so much more attracted to you and start giving you signals everywhere.

 

I’m nothing special in the looks department. And even I can’t go out without some woman giving me a signal, perhaps touching my shoulder at the restaurant like happened the other day. Or giving me a frank stare and tossing her hair.

It’s not like I’m anything incredible looking either. It’s just the power of normal male sexual energy.

Because today

Women aren’t used to basking in a man’s built up (normal) sexual energy

They are used to guys who spill their seed at every opportunity and guys who can’t get it up, and guys who are so porn-ified.

Of course there are plenty of virile men but the percentage today is way down.

So you stand out at this point (pun intended, LOL.) You really do. (Note to young guys: get with it, you have an edge in the looks department but older guys who recover are going to be eating your lunch.)

It’s amazing how much confidence you show at this point, even if you are normally somewhat inhibited, shy or reserved.

It doesn’t matter if shy, reserved or even timid is your outward personality.

Inside, your reptile brain is back into balance and it’s a naturally confident brain, and one that just wants to love and make love.

Your reptile brain is now completely confident and it puts out pheromones and confidence signals that women pick up on without your having to do anything, think anything or be anything but who you are. 

It’s at this point that I find 

Men are surprised to discover how confident they become

It’s striking, and this confidence isn’t about just being confident with women.

Here’s a huge secret of attraction and it doesn’t matter if it’s re-attracting your wife to wake her up sexually or landing a gorgeous girlfriend who really digs on you.

The secret is that women are attracted to men who are confident with other men.

That’s right. If you are confident in your dealings with other men, women will be all over you.

And what makes you confident with men and with women is that same male sexual energy.

 

It surges in you and makes you feel like a total winner. And men get out of your way. They defer to you. They respect you even if you don’t say a word. You don’t have to say a word, they get these signals automatically.

This is what makes you more alpha if you want to call it that. And that attracts women and makes you even more alpha, in a virtuous circle.

There is a lot more to all this. But what you may want to do is head over to my From Dead Down There to Raging Sexual Confidence webinar which I’m able to give, thanks to my publisher allowing me to. Click to see what it’s all about.

And please leave a comment, question or concern here. Thank you

warmly

 

 

 

Be honest with her if you aren’t performing

This is my response to “Peter” who I spoke to a few days ago. 

Here’s what Peter said to me:

“Matt, I just don’t want to go out with this woman. What if she wants to go back to my place?

“I can’t take that embarrassment and failure again”

What should I do? I want to meet women but I can’t stand the idea of having things fail again.”

So I want to answer you here, Peter. And first I want to put a very suggestive sexy photo here. Just to get your attention. BUT warning: if you are recovering from porn or whatnot, do NOT look at the photo, just skip over it with your eyes and read on

Okay…let’s start with the photo of a beautiful sexy woman for no particular reason:

 

And with this photo, remember this:

She’s also worried about performing with you!

Yes, women also have their worries and anxieties about having sex with YOU.

Sure, she doesn’t have to get it up, but neither do you.

You don’t need to, you know.

You can take it slower. And build up the hormone Oxytocin in your brain and hers. Oxytocin makes great erections and lowers the time from one ejaculation to the next. 

Oxytocin makes you dig the other person, but not in a needy hungry way. So if you and she aren’t right for each other, it will be a mutual friendly decision and you can still maintain a friendship. Maybe even FWB if you both want that.

No drama.

You can give Oxytocin a chance to build up in your brain. How? By doing some sleeping together without trying to stick it in. Just for example. And no oral or handjobs for now, either!

But Matt, she’ll toss me aside if I say I want to take it slow…

She’s horny and she’ll think there’s something wrong with me if I tell her I want to take it slow…

Yeah?

Well, so what.

If she wants to have sex immediately and she doesn’t want to get to know you a bit first, then perhaps at this moment in your life she isn’t a good match for you. At this stage, it should be about building up Oxytocin.

Because Oxytocin can bring back softer erections and make them hard. Plus, Oxytocin removes performance anxiety and pressure.

So you don’t need to perform when your Oxytocin levels are high. It’s all automatic and stress free.

But back to what I was saying about your lady. She is worried too.

Women sometimes worry they won’t get wet. Or they worry they won’t come. Not all women worry about this all the time, but many women worry about this more often than you’d think.

(If we could just all get off like animals, we wouldn’t have all this brain stuff here and there, and it would be much easier? It’s the curse of Man and Woman, that we have brains to think with when it comes time to have sex.)

But what…

If you are following my recovery method, what do you tell her in the meantime?

You can as I see it, either conceal or reveal. But let me tell you a secret.

Women admire a man who has confidence.

And the confidence can be, “I’m giving my willie a rest. We can cuddle tonight, I’d love to do that, but sex is off the table for me during this time.”

Hey, how about that?

A breath of fresh air, no?

But Matt, won’t she think I’m some sort of wuss if I tell her that?

Good women know men’s equipment isn’t always functioning tippy top. Good women know men bear the incredible burden God gave men of not having say over whether their willie gets hard, or doesn’t. Women know men have that burden.

And great women know that

You have to be brave to be a real man with a penis

I’ve had my woman tell me that routinely. “Matt,” she’ll say. “I don’t know how you men do it. I’d hate to have to perform all the time. At least I can fake it now and then.”

LOL.

So ask yourself, do you want to go to bed with a girl who doesn’t care about you, and who just demands satisfaction?

I’d throw her over the side in a heartbeat if she isn’t on board with what my willie is or isn’t doing at the moment…

Next!

Who has time or patience for that bullshit? A confident guy just moves to the next girl. Her loss.

Because there will be plenty of nice fun sexy times, plenty. You’ll see yourself through this even if it’s gone on for years, even decades.

But for gosh sakes, get your partner on your side. My system of recovery is so much easier if you have a girl to go to bed with, someone you care for who cares about you.

Yes try to be honest and discover how much better life is.

You’ll find that your life works a whole lot better when you’re not trying to erect a fake front (pun intended) and you just are honest.

It actually shows a SUPER confident man who can man up to a girl about a temporary dick problem. Even a temporary dick problem that has gone on for a long time. Hey, at least you’re getting the problem fixed.

A real man fixes a problem and a great woman loves a man like that. She’ll dig on you and be even hornier for you when the time comes.

Try it this way.

And if you haven’t already, I’m extending this webinar for one more time, go here and make sure you have registered. Click here for more.

Feel free to leave YOUR experiences with women — telling them or not telling them. What happened? What did you do? What was the result? Please share below. Thank you

warmly

 

 

Be honest with her if you aren’t performing

This is my response to “Peter” who I spoke to a few days ago. 

Here’s what Peter said to me:

“Matt, I just don’t want to go out with this woman. What if she wants to go back to my place?

“I can’t take that embarrassment and failure again”

What should I do? I want to meet women but I can’t stand the idea of having things fail again.”

So I want to answer you here, Peter. And first I want to put a very suggestive sexy photo here. Just to get your attention. BUT warning: if you are recovering from porn or whatnot, do NOT look at the photo, just skip over it with your eyes and read on

Okay…let’s start with the photo of a beautiful sexy woman for no particular reason:

 

And with this photo, remember this:

She’s also worried about performing with you!

Yes, women also have their worries and anxieties about having sex with YOU.

Sure, she doesn’t have to get it up, but neither do you.

You don’t need to, you know.

You can take it slower. And build up the hormone Oxytocin in your brain and hers. Oxytocin makes great erections and lowers the time from one ejaculation to the next. 

Oxytocin makes you dig the other person, but not in a needy hungry way. So if you and she aren’t right for each other, it will be a mutual friendly decision and you can still maintain a friendship. Maybe even FWB if you both want that.

No drama.

You can give Oxytocin a chance to build up in your brain. How? By doing some sleeping together without trying to stick it in. Just for example. And no oral or handjobs for now, either!

But Matt, she’ll toss me aside if I say I want to take it slow…

She’s horny and she’ll think there’s something wrong with me if I tell her I want to take it slow…

Yeah?

Well, so what.

If she wants to have sex immediately and she doesn’t want to get to know you a bit first, then perhaps at this moment in your life she isn’t a good match for you. At this stage, it should be about building up Oxytocin.

Because Oxytocin can bring back softer erections and make them hard. Plus, Oxytocin removes performance anxiety and pressure.

So you don’t need to perform when your Oxytocin levels are high. It’s all automatic and stress free.

But back to what I was saying about your lady. She is worried too.

Women sometimes worry they won’t get wet. Or they worry they won’t come. Not all women worry about this all the time, but many women worry about this more often than you’d think.

(If we could just all get off like animals, we wouldn’t have all this brain stuff here and there, and it would be much easier? It’s the curse of Man and Woman, that we have brains to think with when it comes time to have sex.)

But what…

If you are following my recovery method, what do you tell her in the meantime?

You can as I see it, either conceal or reveal. But let me tell you a secret.

Women admire a man who has confidence.

And the confidence can be, “I’m giving my willie a rest. We can cuddle tonight, I’d love to do that, but sex is off the table for me during this time.”

Hey, how about that?

A breath of fresh air, no?

But Matt, won’t she think I’m some sort of wuss if I tell her that?

Good women know men’s equipment isn’t always functioning tippy top. Good women know men bear the incredible burden God gave men of not having say over whether their willie gets hard, or doesn’t. Women know men have that burden.

And great women know that

You have to be brave to be a real man with a penis

I’ve had my woman tell me that routinely. “Matt,” she’ll say. “I don’t know how you men do it. I’d hate to have to perform all the time. At least I can fake it now and then.”

LOL.

So ask yourself, do you want to go to bed with a girl who doesn’t care about you, and who just demands satisfaction?

I’d throw her over the side in a heartbeat if she isn’t on board with what my willie is or isn’t doing at the moment…

Next!

Who has time or patience for that bullshit? A confident guy just moves to the next girl. Her loss.

Because there will be plenty of nice fun sexy times, plenty. You’ll see yourself through this even if it’s gone on for years, even decades.

But for gosh sakes, get your partner on your side. My system of recovery is so much easier if you have a girl to go to bed with, someone you care for who cares about you.

Yes try to be honest and discover how much better life is.

You’ll find that your life works a whole lot better when you’re not trying to erect a fake front (pun intended) and you just are honest.

It actually shows a SUPER confident man who can man up to a girl about a temporary dick problem. Even a temporary dick problem that has gone on for a long time. Hey, at least you’re getting the problem fixed.

A real man fixes a problem and a great woman loves a man like that. She’ll dig on you and be even hornier for you when the time comes.

Try it this way.

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