A neighbor introduced Chad into the joys of porn (“P” as we often say in these emails.)
And showed Chad how to “M.”
That was the instant beginning of a life long problem with “M” and “P” as we call it in these emails.
Chad could not get enough. Sometimes three or four times a day.
And it continued even after he got married.
He thought marriage would end his issues with P and M but it didn’t.
Chad felt distant from his wife. That is a common effect from P and M — real women seem less than exciting.
And he had great difficulties even being interested in “Sue”.
P was much more stimulating and they made love as seldom as possible.
And after a few years, they divorced.
Now he’s in a new relationship and everything has changed.
Chad is so excited about his new life.
He has discovered the urge to get over a lifelong problem with P and M.
He now knows that P can become an addiction that affects the brain physically.
P gets the brain hooked on the hormone dopamine.
The dopamine addiction is what P is all about, nothing to do with women.
The brain’s pleasure center gets hooked on dopamine from P and that is what causes what Chad knows now is “de-sensitization.”
It is totally not his fault. Chad was completely innocent.
As are you.
Now, Chad knows the truth and he is taking charge and wow, he is an excited and determined man.
He feels that the issues he’s had have made him perform poorly in bed with women and now he is really excited about being excited with his new girlfriend.
His former addiction to P made him shy and distant but he is coming out of his shell.
He is claiming the life of being a strong determined man in passionate love with his girlfriend.
Watch my emails for more about Chad tomorrow and announcement of the next web training class.
I’m excited for you!
You may have heard of Suzy Favor-Hamilton, the amazing story of compulsion and the question “why did she do it?”
Click here for the answer to that question in a video I just made that reveals the secret to overcoming compulsions and addictions and having a wonderful new life.
Do you believe that willpower determines success?
Many studies show that willpower is the key to improving a lot of things.
Have you heard of David Blaine?
David Blaine locked himself in a block of ice and sat motionless for 72 hours without sleep.
He also held his breath for 17 minutes, televised on Oprah.
If you want to see how he did it, this video features him explaining how he grew up to do these feats and how he held his breath for 17 minutes
I’m mentioning David Blaine because he shows us that we can in fact build up our willpower to do amazing things.
By noticing what someone like David Blaine does, we can learn how to do simpler things like:
Studies show that willpower can be strengthened quite easily.
The method involves looking at willpower as a muscle.
You can lift a heavy weight for so many reps and then your muscles get tired.
If you rest and lift the weight again it will become a little easier.
If you keep practicing your lifts the weight that seemed heavy will now seem light.
The willpower muscle works pretty much the same way.
You practice willpower and then recharge your willpower muscle and then you are able to apply more willpower and more willpower each time you practice.
This practice of building what I call the willpower muscle will make it easier and easier for you to make goals and realize your dreams.
I should be ready for our next web training tomorrow — and we’ll talk about how you can please any partner and have the deepest intimacy possible.
No need to hold your breath for 17 minutes, lol.
Been getting lots of questions in the mailbag. If you have one, comment at the bottom of this page and lay it on me.
One question that came up recently was about performance anxiety. This certainly contributes to a lot of difficulty guys have.
I thought I’d be a real studly when I was in high school.
My best friend was doing 101 positions with his GF at the time and I couldn’t convince my GF to try much of anything short of kissing.
But I felt I would be invincible.
Meanwhile, I built a huge case of anticipation whenever I had a date. And that caused me to get the dreaded “blue balls” afterwards. And when we did go to bed, Mr. Pecker would not perform.
It about killed me.
This video shows you some practical things you can do about performance anxiety:
I’ll tell you more about my experiences soon. Meanwhile, Big Bang has been available for a short while again — they are taking it back into the vault, so get your 60 day trial now (if you still can.)
Lasting 30 minutes or more is a matter of how well you can relax.
Did you know that?
Relaxation is what lets you last.
It’s when we tense up that we end it all — we reach the top of the mountain too quickly.
Then we come and it’s gone and she still isn’t satisfied.
This can occur in 5 or 10 or 15 minutes, but the fact is this. Women require longer to warm up.
And the longer you can go at it in a fun and relaxed way, the greater the experience for your woman.
Men aren’t designed this way instinctively so us guys have to figure it out some other way. Genetically, we’re designed to get up in a heartbeat when an available female is around.
We’re here in this world because our ancestors, those guys before us, whipped it out and got it on quickly. The game was get the seed in her and let it sprout.
That was maybe 10,000 years ago but in evolutionary terms, that’s nothing.
We’re still built that way. We’re built to go at it quickly and dump our wad.
But women are built differently and here’s why.
Evolutionarily speaking, a woman needs a man. The man protects her, lets her raise children and shelters the weaker woman from all the injuries and threats. So women have been designed to out-last a man in the sack.
They are designed to get every last drop out of you, and then some, lol.
1. That they are fertilized
2. That you the man gets wrung out and maxed out so you aren’t as likely to wander off to fertilize another female.
This is why women take a lot longer to really get maximum interest in what’s going on — and also, women can easily have multiples.
But men cannot easily have multiples.
So when you’ve come you’re done, is what it amounts to. That’s why if you focus on relaxation you can last 30 minutes or more and help give her multiples.
Then you can have yours and you both will be completely happy with how things turned out.
And if you feel you have issues with lasting, or with entering, or with coming too quickly, this will really help you
P.S. Remember hit REPLY to ask a question, as I read all the emails that get sent to me.
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